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post #181 of 254
You guys are worrying about his potential STDs? That's the least of his worries.
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Originally Posted by antirabbit View Post
Awesome, this is going to get out of control. So, back to the update. I am heading to LA right now from Chicago, sitting in the club at the airport.... Apparently he was "seduced" basically she constructed a strong arguement and pushed hard. Whats worse is she insisted that he not wear a condom....do the math on why, but he is now thinking that he has HPV virus coursing through his veins and who knows what else. He also mentioned (when I asked, I had to ask) that the experience was about average, and was suprised with the physiology he encountered. Meaning, she was "small" and seemed to just really get into it in her own world, like he was just a vehicle of her getting off. Anyhow, I know of no prophylaxis for HPV besides not being in contact with it. I am sure he will spend the next week or two doing google research on it. Any how, it seems as though it was very much not worth doing. We shall see what happens from here.
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Apparently stupid is a communicable disease as well. Matt, I have no answer to that, this guy is a lawyer, he should know better. Apparently her seduction is strong. I have no idea, and chastened him as best I could.
She's selfish girl that fucks a lot of guys while your friend is a lawyer that fucked her. The girl was only willing to do it without a condom. He's the beta male provider in her eyes. She'll fuck a couple of guys that she genuinely feels attraction in order get knocked up. Be sure to update us with the pregnancy scare that'll be coming down the road within a few weeks. I always thought all lawyers were filled with a lot of common sense until now. Now post her pics! Better yet get your friend to start posting here. By the way this thread delivers to the forum.
post #182 of 254
Thread Starter 
Shit....I didnt even think about conception....wow.
I can only say, I am glad I slept with my wife of 10 years last night, who I know is not even in the double digits, clean, and safe!
I kind of feel nauseated now.
post #183 of 254
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Originally Posted by jonglover View Post
I myself wouldn't want to initiate a relationship with someone that's been with 500+ people. You can remove an Entenmann's Rich Frosted Doughnut from the top of the trash and it may still be delicious but, ultimately, it's been in the garbage. Also, her behavior was dangerous if she's dealt with STDs. Fuuma and Matt, you guys are just as ridiculous as the misogynist retards in pigeonholing everyone that's not "OK" being with someone who has had hundreds of partners coupled with sexually transmitted diseases.

1) I believe what Matt (and I) are opposing is the characterization of someone as garbage due to their number of partners, as exemplified by the bolded part of your text.

2) This is largely a theoretical discussion, it goes without saying that having sex with someone who is currently infected with a STD is not a situation to be approached lightly.

With that being said I knew prevalence was high and looked it up on wikipedia, the lazy researcher's treasure trove:
"Genital HPV infection is very common, with estimates suggesting that more than 50% of women will become infected with one or more of the sexually transmitted HPV types at some point during adulthood.[8] The American Social Health Association reported estimates that about 75% of sexually active Americans will be infected with HPV at some point in their lifetime."
post #184 of 254
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Originally Posted by TyCooN View Post
You guys are worrying about his potential STDs? That's the least of his worries. She's selfish girl that fucks a lot of guys while your friend is a lawyer that fucked her. The girl was only willing to do it without a condom. He's the beta male provider in her eyes. She'll fuck a couple of guys that she genuinely feels attraction in order get knocked up. Be sure to update us with the pregnancy scare that'll be coming down the road within a few weeks. I always thought all lawyers were filled with a lot of common sense until now. Now post her pics! Better yet get your friend to start posting here. By the way this thread delivers to the forum.
Dude, calm down!! The info you're getting is the friend's vision, distorted by the way he wants his actions to appear to his obviously disapproving friend and then distorted by the re-wording and personal bias of the OP. There is very little info to be gleaned into the nature of the relationship from that.
post #185 of 254
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Originally Posted by antirabbit View Post
Shit....I didnt even think about conception....wow.
Did she even have to lie about using birth control to your friend?
post #186 of 254
Thread Starter 
I am trying to color this as little as possible. Perhaps impossible, but I am trying not to.
Bottom line:
He knew what he was getting into and made a choice to have un-protected sex with a woman who has a past, and also happens to have some reminders of that past.
The reason for un protected sex was:
"I have much stronger contractions when I cum if you dont have a condom on, and you will feel it so much more as well".
SO, I guess he wanted to experience that.
post #187 of 254
Thread Starter 
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Originally Posted by TyCooN View Post
Did she even have to lie about using birth control to your friend?

Funny you ask, apparently she got off birth control about 3 months ago, because it dampened her sex drive! That was the first thing I asked him when he told me about the lack of protection.
post #188 of 254
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Originally Posted by antirabbit View Post
Funny you ask, apparently she got off birth control about 3 months ago, because it dampened her sex drive! That was the first thing I asked him when he told me about the lack of protection.
Well if she didn't need to lie about it then you friend must be really stupid. We have someone like that being a lawyer.
post #189 of 254
Antirabbit - any chance your friend is just messing with you?
post #190 of 254
Seriously, is your friend trolling styleforum through you?
post #191 of 254
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Originally Posted by Mr T View Post
Antirabbit - any chance your friend is just messing with you?

I was starting to wonder along the same lines.
First he pauses at the mention of 500 partners in her past, and asks for help in considering the future potential of this budding relationship.
He knows STD's are in her past.
She was on birth control but is now off (hello rebound pregnancy?)
He gets talked into sleeping with her, unprotected (and it's just average?!?)

I'm thinking this friend is - at best - easily manipulated.

Now, I'll say this: I've had unprotected sex with women who've had pasts. Numerous times. Repeatedly. Would I do so again today? No, and I feel lucky to have stayed clean as I have. Your friend might still have a clean bill of health, and I hope that's the case, but seriously this is a different world today than it was 15 years ago.
post #192 of 254
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Originally Posted by iammatt View Post
Sex is fun, and it is neither dangerous nor immoral as long as you use protection.

Wait, what?

A condom will certainly prevent HIV transmission, but there's all sorts of other nasty stuff (of the genital and oral variety) that a condom won't necessarily deter.
post #193 of 254
assuming her first sex is at 15, and shes 30 years old

450 guys means 20 per year, or every single encounter lasts 18 days...

that's kinda a lot, like realy, a lot...
post #194 of 254
I'm commenting in this thread to say two things: 1) Sauce rules. 2)
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Originally Posted by antirabbit View Post
Apparently stupid is a communicable disease as well.
That's hilarious. And true.
post #195 of 254
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Originally Posted by vitaminc View Post
assuming her first sex is at 15, and shes 30 years old

450 guys means 20 per year, or every single encounter lasts 18 days...

that's kinda a lot, like realy, a lot...

Not if you throw in a gangbang or two every quarter.
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