how many partners is far too many? - Page 13

You guys are worrying about his potential STDs? That's the least of his worries. She's selfish girl that fucks a lot of guys while your friend is a lawyer that fucked her. The girl was only willing to do it without a condom. He's the beta male provider in her eyes. She'll fuck a couple of guys that she genuinely feels attraction in order get knocked up. Be sure to update us with the pregnancy scare that'll be coming down the road within a few weeks. I always thought all lawyers were filled with a lot of common sense until now. Now post her pics! Better yet get your friend to start posting here. By the way this thread delivers to the forum.

1) I believe what Matt (and I) are opposing is the characterization of someone as garbage due to their number of partners, as exemplified by the bolded part of your text.

2) This is largely a theoretical discussion, it goes without saying that having sex with someone who is currently infected with a STD is not a situation to be approached lightly.

With that being said I knew prevalence was high and looked it up on wikipedia, the lazy researcher's treasure trove:
"Genital HPV infection is very common, with estimates suggesting that more than 50% of women will become infected with one or more of the sexually transmitted HPV types at some point during adulthood.[8] The American Social Health Association reported estimates that about 75% of sexually active Americans will be infected with HPV at some point in their lifetime."

Dude, calm down!! The info you're getting is the friend's vision, distorted by the way he wants his actions to appear to his obviously disapproving friend and then distorted by the re-wording and personal bias of the OP. There is very little info to be gleaned into the nature of the relationship from that.

Did she even have to lie about using birth control to your friend?

Well if she didn't need to lie about it then you friend must be really stupid. We have someone like that being a lawyer.

Antirabbit - any chance your friend is just messing with you?

Seriously, is your friend trolling styleforum through you?

I was starting to wonder along the same lines.
First he pauses at the mention of 500 partners in her past, and asks for help in considering the future potential of this budding relationship.
He knows STD's are in her past.
She was on birth control but is now off (hello rebound pregnancy?)
He gets talked into sleeping with her, unprotected (and it's just average?!?)

I'm thinking this friend is - at best - easily manipulated.

Now, I'll say this: I've had unprotected sex with women who've had pasts. Numerous times. Repeatedly. Would I do so again today? No, and I feel lucky to have stayed clean as I have. Your friend might still have a clean bill of health, and I hope that's the case, but seriously this is a different world today than it was 15 years ago.

Wait, what?

A condom will certainly prevent HIV transmission, but there's all sorts of other nasty stuff (of the genital and oral variety) that a condom won't necessarily deter.

assuming her first sex is at 15, and shes 30 years old

450 guys means 20 per year, or every single encounter lasts 18 days...

that's kinda a lot, like realy, a lot...

I'm commenting in this thread to say two things: 1) Sauce rules. 2) That's hilarious. And true.

Not if you throw in a gangbang or two every quarter.