Originally Posted by lost in va
Find me a girl in who has slept with over 50 people and I'll find you a girl who has cheated on her boyfriend/husband/etc.
It's really not that hard to understand. I'm sorry if you disagree but based on what I've seen my theory is 100% correct. It's almost par for the course when your lust for sex is that great. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE sex just as much as the next guy with a dick does, but I don't feel the need to almost over indulge in it just because it feels good.
1) I'll grant you that a girl who has had sex with 50 people is more likely to have cheated than one who slept with 0 or 1 but aside from that, and considering something like 50% of Americans have had affairs, I'd say it is par for the course. What is important is that you're both committed to this relationship not the one two yrs ago with someone else; after all if you're together now the old relationships DID fail, as far as success could be defined by the couple continuing to exist.
2) You do realize that someone who sleeps with many different partners do not necessarily (and that is often true) have more sex than one who sleeps with the same one? Shouldn't you ask the girl how many times she had sex instead to make sure she doesn't "over indulge"?