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post #166 of 254
Ah, missed that the first time. I thought you were calling people like that inhibited prudes.
post #167 of 254
I myself wouldn't want to initiate a relationship with someone that's been with 500+ people. You can remove an Entenmann's Rich Frosted Doughnut from the top of the trash and it may still be delicious but, ultimately, it's been in the garbage. Also, her behavior was dangerous if she's dealt with STDs. Fuuma and Matt, you guys are just as ridiculous as the misogynist retards in pigeonholing everyone that's not "OK" being with someone who has had hundreds of partners coupled with sexually transmitted diseases.
post #168 of 254
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Awesome, this is going to get out of control.


So, back to the update.
I am heading to LA right now from Chicago, sitting in the club at the airport....

Apparently he was "seduced" basically she constructed a strong arguement and pushed hard.
Whats worse is she insisted that he not wear a condom....do the math on why, but he is now thinking that he has HPV virus coursing through his veins and who knows what else.
He also mentioned (when I asked, I had to ask) that the experience was about average, and was suprised with the physiology he encountered. Meaning, she was "small" and seemed to just really get into it in her own world, like he was just a vehicle of her getting off.
Anyhow, I know of no prophylaxis for HPV besides not being in contact with it. I am sure he will spend the next week or two doing google research on it.
Any how, it seems as though it was very much not worth doing. We shall see what happens from here.
post #169 of 254
^^^ No offense, but your friend appears to have at least as many problems as this girl. WTF was he thinking by not putting a bag on? HPV is probably the least of his worries.
post #170 of 254
Thread Starter 
Apparently stupid is a communicable disease as well.
Matt, I have no answer to that, this guy is a lawyer, he should know better.
Apparently her seduction is strong. I have no idea, and chastened him as best I could.
post #171 of 254
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Originally Posted by antirabbit View Post
Awesome, this is going to get out of control.


So, back to the update.
I am heading to LA right now from Chicago, sitting in the club at the airport....

Apparently he was "seduced" basically she constructed a strong arguement and pushed hard.
Whats worse is she insisted that he not wear a condom....do the math on why, but he is now thinking that he has HPV virus coursing through his veins and who knows what else.
He also mentioned (when I asked, I had to ask) that the experience was about average, and was suprised with the physiology he encountered. Meaning, she was "small" and seemed to just really get into it in her own world, like he was just a vehicle of her getting off.
Anyhow, I know of no prophylaxis for HPV besides not being in contact with it. I am sure he will spend the next week or two doing google research on it.
Any how, it seems as though it was very much not worth doing. We shall see what happens from here.

Uh, wow. Nevermind. Good luck with everything.
post #172 of 254
Natural Selection.
post #173 of 254
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Oh, and there is not a test for HPV in males....haha dumb ass friend of mine.
post #174 of 254
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Originally Posted by lost in va View Post
I fear my words may have been taken out of context or I simply didn't get them across as I should.

I'm in no way saying that if you've slept with 350 people I couldn't talk to you, look at you, or even be your friend as that's FAR from the truth. When I said untrustworthy I meant in terms of a committed relationship with myself. I am the one you considered basically a virgin, rightfully so I guess, but that doesn't mean I know next to nothing about the inner workings of relationships/sex/etc. It's just a matter of what I want in a partner vs. what you consider "normal" I don't have it within me to trust someone who has slept with triple digits to be in a committed relationship. Is it totally wrong and should I be hung for this? I hope the hell not.

This does not explain why you are calling them untrustworthy. It's about you, not them.
post #175 of 254
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Originally Posted by Fuuma View Post
This does not explain why you are calling them untrustworthy. It's about you, not them.

Find me a girl in who has slept with over 50 people and I'll find you a girl who has cheated on her boyfriend/husband/etc.

It's really not that hard to understand. I'm sorry if you disagree but based on what I've seen my theory is 100% correct. It's almost par for the course when your lust for sex is that great. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE sex just as much as the next guy with a dick does, but I don't feel the need to almost over indulge in it just because it feels good.
post #176 of 254
ouch. i posted my posts thinking they had already had sex and he might as well keep doing if he is having fun. your friend is a retard.
post #177 of 254
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Originally Posted by iammatt View Post
^^^ No offense, but your friend appears to have at least as many problems as this girl. WTF was he thinking by not putting a bag on? HPV is probably the least of his worries.

Word. It sounds like she was using him, and he was an idiot who let himself be used... so everything pretty much worked out as it should.
post #178 of 254
Thread Starter 
exactly, but what will be interesting is the fall out, or perhaps re-coupulation, Its like doing coke for the first time. You will either never do it again, or say fuck it and hop right back it at the soonest chance.

Honestly, I am dissappointed in him, sex is not worth contraction of viruses or other pathogenic nasties. Let alone doing it with the knowledge that this was a distinct possibility.
I can not feel sorry for him.
post #179 of 254
It's interesting that the discussion here focused for the most part on "the number." I would have thought that the STDs alone would be sufficient cause for not initiating a sexual relationship.
post #180 of 254
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Originally Posted by lost in va View Post
Find me a girl in who has slept with over 50 people and I'll find you a girl who has cheated on her boyfriend/husband/etc.

It's really not that hard to understand. I'm sorry if you disagree but based on what I've seen my theory is 100% correct. It's almost par for the course when your lust for sex is that great. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE sex just as much as the next guy with a dick does, but I don't feel the need to almost over indulge in it just because it feels good.

1) I'll grant you that a girl who has had sex with 50 people is more likely to have cheated than one who slept with 0 or 1 but aside from that, and considering something like 50% of Americans have had affairs, I'd say it is par for the course. What is important is that you're both committed to this relationship not the one two yrs ago with someone else; after all if you're together now the old relationships DID fail, as far as success could be defined by the couple continuing to exist.

2) You do realize that someone who sleeps with many different partners do not necessarily (and that is often true) have more sex than one who sleeps with the same one? Shouldn't you ask the girl how many times she had sex instead to make sure she doesn't "over indulge"?
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