So,
Today, while talking to a good friend of mine who has recently shown interest in a new girl, brought up this topic.
For me, I said, low double digits if she is in her twenties is something I could tolerate (like under 20)
After I made this comment, he said she had well over 300, and perhaps over 500 (how one doesnt know is odd on its own).
I was stunned.
However, he then went on to mention that she had only 10 in the past 5 years, and that in her highschool and post highschool days she had many many partners....which led to a couple of STD's and HPV.
His question to me is this something I could live with.
She is wanting a serious relationship with him, and he is having some difficulty getting past this.
I said NO. I could not really get past that. I mean, that is several hundred peni, and no matter what, in the context of a serious relationship, that is highly undesireable.
She disclosed this to be upfront about her past (wow, hide that at all costs...)
So, what is your opinion?
I have personally (with the exception of knowing a few sex workers in rehab) never met any woman who has had that many partners.
Today, while talking to a good friend of mine who has recently shown interest in a new girl, brought up this topic.
For me, I said, low double digits if she is in her twenties is something I could tolerate (like under 20)
After I made this comment, he said she had well over 300, and perhaps over 500 (how one doesnt know is odd on its own).
I was stunned.
However, he then went on to mention that she had only 10 in the past 5 years, and that in her highschool and post highschool days she had many many partners....which led to a couple of STD's and HPV.
His question to me is this something I could live with.
She is wanting a serious relationship with him, and he is having some difficulty getting past this.
I said NO. I could not really get past that. I mean, that is several hundred peni, and no matter what, in the context of a serious relationship, that is highly undesireable.
She disclosed this to be upfront about her past (wow, hide that at all costs...)
So, what is your opinion?
I have personally (with the exception of knowing a few sex workers in rehab) never met any woman who has had that many partners.
I agree with you, at 25yo, her numbers should be like 30'ish to be acceptable. Maybe I'm conservative on that, but that's me. I wouldn't want a virgin or prude either. With those kind of numbers though, she had better make up for it with some skill and enthusiasm. 
Even then, she'd be more of a novelty or girl on the side, and probably not someone you'd want to consider getting into a LTR with. Maybe she's a really cool person with a hot body and your friend really clicks with her? Judging her on just this alone could be wrong. But by asking you that question, it's already bothering him. Why deal with that baggage? Have fun and then break it off in a little bit is my advice.
