Is it possible to stay slim as a "normal" freshman in college?

Absolutely do not say 'fuck it, i'll lose weight later.' Coming from someone who went to college skinny and had that basic attitude, that's just ridiculous. Just work now and slim down or stay as you are.

Living in the dorms isn't necessarily going to make you fat. Just watch what you eat. Don't eat any ungodly amounts of food, but don't starve yourself. Definitely keep working out and doing cardio.

The biggest thing for you is probably the alcohol. 40 drinks a week---that's kinda nuts man. Are you channeling Connemara?

Drink a little less, start eating better, and keep working out. You shouldn't have any problem staying a good size.

Don't say "Fuck it". It's MUCH harder to take off than it is to prevent it from going on. The general rule of thumb is calories in=calories out. If you're taking a lot in, you must stay very active and keep them burning off. Mapmyrun.com has a calorie calculator for your runs which can be helpful. If you're going to take on 10 drinks in a night (I've been there...) that's going to be 50-100% of your daily caloric intake. You're going to have to go for a good hour and a half run to cancel that out.

Keep in mind the better shape you're in, the more muscle you'll have. More muscle requires more calories during rest periods so even if you're not working out you're still burning more calories. Just stay on top of it and you'll be alright.

A gin and tonic has 280 calories, while mixed drinks with soda or other things can have many more calories. A shot of alcohol by itself has about 150 calories in general. If you're really consuming 40 drinks per week, that's at least 6000 calories, or close to 1000 extra calories per day from alcohol. That would require probably an hour and a half of running a day to burn off, assuming you ran every day. Regarding the food, it's probably calorie rich if it's typical processed dorm food, but I doubt that's where your problems lie. It's almost certainly in the alcohol, although if you specifically picked healthy things to eat in the cafeteria it would probably help. When I was in undergrad I actually ate healthier than I did otherwise because I would just get plates full of chicken breasts and bowls of spinach but then again my cafeteria was pretty good in terms of food options, and I know some places don't have nice buffet style cafeterias with lots of choices.

boost your activity level - i avoided putting on too much fat by playing 5-10 hours of full court basketball a week, plus 2 to 4 weightlifting sessions. i also drank a lot, but more in the 10-20 drinks/week range - the 40 drink/week things were saved for the big party weekends.

i ate an ungodly amount of unhealthy things during college, but i tried to balance it by getting a salad at both lunch and dinner, and by making sure i got additional vegetables and fruit. but then, i was trying to put on weight during my college days (i showed up my freshman year at 6'1", 135 and a 31 or 32 waist, and graduated around 180 and a 35~36 waist). some of it was muscle and some was fat.

and yeah, it's easier to keep it off than to lose it. i've been stuck at 35 to 36 for quite some time, even as i've added 20 more pounds of muscle, and would prefer being at 34 or so. but it's tough to lose that last bit of fat.

Best advice is cut back a lot on the booze, eat smarter with smaller portions, continue working out especially with a strong cardio componant and you find it a lot easier to keep the paunch off.

Believe if you start now with decent habits on the health front, the prevention beats the pound of cure any day of the week.

It's a lot harder to lose weight when you get older with a slowing metabolism even if you do work out on a regular basis. I am fighting to a stalemate with the last 10-15 pounds.

Man, I lost a good 6-8 pounds after my first semester away from home.. Guess Im not normal.

Actually, a 1.5oz shot of alcohol has closer to 70 calories. A beer comes in around 140. If you drink rum and coke, get your coke diet at least. But basically, stop drinking so damn much. For your social life and general ability to adjust to college, find your buzz point and stay there. Or at least don't drink savagely on a Wednesday. Especially as a college freshman, there's no good reason to be developing a habit of 40 beers a week, starting on a Wednesday. That's a serious amount of calories, an addition to being serious other things too. A friend of mine had a similar routine to yours and put on a good 80 pounds in a year and a half. As far as your diet, consult the FDA's food pyramid and stick with it. Dorm food offers many healthy choices. Most of the decisions are easy-- don't eat pasta unless it's whole wheat, same for bread, and stay away from sugar and fried food. Eat a spinach salad with your dinner. Have two hard-boiled eggs for lunch instead of a burger. Become well-aquianted with the salad bar. Instead of calorie-laden dressing, use the oil and vinegar instead. A lot of dining halls I've been in had peanut butter and jelly so if you wanted to make your own sandwiches, you could do that. If you aren't a big salad person, get a chicken breast from the grill, cut it up and put it in your salad for a grilled chicken salad. As far as things you're doing right, it's great that you're drinking milk. Try to work in another serving of fruit or vegetables, like an apple or orange, with every meal. Also have a glass of water with every meal. Eat carrots and squash when you can. If there are decent fish offerings, eat them. If you can find them and they're good, eat bean dishes in lieu of meat every now and then. Lifestyle-wise, walk everywhere you can.

College without alcohol sounds like an awesome time. Let's all read the bible now.

It depends on the liquor, This link seems to suggest that 1 oz of most 80 proof liquor is about 100 calories but flavored liquors are generally significantly more. My guess would be that the vast majority of drinks consumed at a college party have significantly more than 1.5 oz of liquor in them, also.

It seems like you are getting two entrees at most meals (full fare + a grill item), my advice would be to cut back one of those items and add fruit/vegetables in it's place.

As for the bad things that you will not be able to cut out (drinking and late night junkfood) try to mitigate the damage - drink light beer, use diet soda as a mixer, and try to choose the lesser of the junk foods.

also - light beer is right around 100-110 calories per bottle. pretty much as low as you can get calorie/booze wise. In addition it will take you a lot longer to drink those beers v. mixed drinks/shots so you are likely to drink less.

One of the best parts of my day everyday is going to the gym...I get out tons of stress and see several hundred amazingly beautiful girls working out. Two girls I've dated in the last three years I met downtown by bringing up seeing them often at the gym and my current gf of two years is the latest. The gym should be your best friend in college.

Edit: i see you go to the gym...you should lift more than an hour though and should add in some basketball or intramurals maybe at the same time or in place of cardio. It is fun, you meet tons of people, and will keep you in shape.