First off, I'd like to say this is a great place. I actually found this site by random chance.
Okay, so here's my situation. I'm a freshman in college and I've made some friends. To make things easier to explain and for the sake of remaining anonymous, I'm going to substitute letters for names. I befriended this guy, L, in one of my classes. He went to a high school that I didn't go to, but I knew some people who went there, so perhaps he knew them too. So I was on Facebook and I was looking through his high school friends, and I didn't recognize anyone in particular. But on the first page, the first person I saw was this beautiful brunette, V, who happened to go to the same college as me!!! So throughout the semester I asked my friend if he could help me out. He messaged her on Facebook, saying, "There's this guy I'd like you to meet; he's a nice, cool guy and I'd think you'll like him," or something along those lines. Anyway, he waited for about a week and nothing. To this day, no response. So about two or three weeks ago, I was walking with another friend, B, to his car to give me a ride home. As we're leaving the building, I saw her! She was with her friend leaving the bathroom, but I didn't say anything because my friend was talking and it would seem creepy to say to her, "Hey do you know L from your high school?"
If I'm lucky and given another chance, what should I say? How do I approach her? I don't want to come off as a stalker; believe me, that is the last thing I want. I know many of you will say that it's college and there's plenty out there, but for some reason she's just been stuck in my head the whole time. Please, any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Okay, so here's my situation. I'm a freshman in college and I've made some friends. To make things easier to explain and for the sake of remaining anonymous, I'm going to substitute letters for names. I befriended this guy, L, in one of my classes. He went to a high school that I didn't go to, but I knew some people who went there, so perhaps he knew them too. So I was on Facebook and I was looking through his high school friends, and I didn't recognize anyone in particular. But on the first page, the first person I saw was this beautiful brunette, V, who happened to go to the same college as me!!! So throughout the semester I asked my friend if he could help me out. He messaged her on Facebook, saying, "There's this guy I'd like you to meet; he's a nice, cool guy and I'd think you'll like him," or something along those lines. Anyway, he waited for about a week and nothing. To this day, no response. So about two or three weeks ago, I was walking with another friend, B, to his car to give me a ride home. As we're leaving the building, I saw her! She was with her friend leaving the bathroom, but I didn't say anything because my friend was talking and it would seem creepy to say to her, "Hey do you know L from your high school?"
If I'm lucky and given another chance, what should I say? How do I approach her? I don't want to come off as a stalker; believe me, that is the last thing I want. I know many of you will say that it's college and there's plenty out there, but for some reason she's just been stuck in my head the whole time. Please, any advice would be greatly appreciated.









