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Originally Posted by
Brian SD 
Meh, I've had platonic sleepovers and friendships with girls. I have some female friends who are very close, but out of respect to my relationship I won't take it past hugs.
This but i'm single. I have a friend who has perfect chemistry with me and we play off eachother well and are mostly on the same page. Lately, since i've been single, we have been hanging out more. She has slept over a few times, twice in my bed, but nothing has happened. Not even a kiss. I don't know, i don't think things will happen either. She seems pretty cool with it as well and we just honestly enjoy each other's company, moreso than a fair amount of our same sex friends.
Another girl i'm good friends with became friends with me while i had a girlfriend and now we're still strictly platonic. We've been hanging out a good amount the past month and it's going well. I actually helped her get laid this past weekend with a guy who she had a "will they/wont they" thing going on with. I helped them out a bit and then as we were hanging out at his place, i took her friend who was with us and basically just abandoned her and told her to get the job done. She said that she'd actively help me find a hook up if i wanted it too and gave me a run down of possible candidates among her friends.
I generally make friends easier with girls than guys (always have) so this might account for it. Don't get me wrong, it's unavoidable to think about the friend relationship/sex wise at times but for the most part the friend benefits outweigh the relationship ones. Plus, some have boyfriends and i'm just straight friends with them. I can tolerate girls a bit below me intellectually/humor wise muce easier than guys that are the same. I dunno, maybe it's just me and i'll have a post in a month talking about how i hooked up with one of my 2 good female platonic friends.
