I'm Single...

...well, kinda.

After 14 months we are "taking a break".
It was somewhat at my request.

While I love em fresh and 17-20, when it comes to being in the day to day relationship of things it can get pretty tiresome. Sure, I don't mind going out and stuff like that; but, I don't worry about going to Stereo, Bungalow, Marquee, Home every Thurs-Sat.
I shouldn't feel like I'm taking someone away from something when I want to go out and eat at Cafe Gray or something on a Friday night.

Also, other **** as in the fact that if I have a friend with a dick he worries about if we hooked up prior to he and I dating or if we're going to get drunk and screw. When, half of his friends are little gay boys who I know would love to molester him.

We've agreed to not speak with eachother until next Friday the 15th. He's taking all of his stuff from my house right now back to his dorm.

Originally Posted by SoCal2NYC

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Sure, I don't mind going out and stuff like that; but, I don't worry about going to Stereo, Bungalow, Marquee, Home every Thurs-Sat.

Gettin old, SoCal, gettin old...

Sorry to hear about that, SoCal, although you don't sound totally busted up over it. I have a philosophy on these things: They always work out the way they're supposed to in the end. And if they don't? Well, there's no use wasting time wondering about how things might have been. Whatever happens is what happened and you deal.

Sounds like you're already dealing.

Look at the bright side though. At least he didn't make you wear matching outfits.

Good luck on the social scene. Can be exhilerating after a spell on the sidelines.

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Gettin old, SoCal, gettin old...

I know!

Haha and the other day when I was at Bergdorf I saw a few well-to-do 28 year old hotties and was like...do I want me one of those?

It's not that I won't go out or don't want to go out...it's just that I've already done that. I've been 19 and in college and partied and all of that.

Originally Posted by SoCal2NYC

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I know!

Haha and the other day when I was at Bergdorf I saw a few well-to-do 28 year old hotties and was like...do I want me one of those?

It's not that I won't go out or don't want to go out...it's just that I've already done that. I've been 19 and in college and partied and all of that.

Indeed, partying gets repetitive after a while, especially if you do it often. And frankly clubs around the world are for the most part, the same (same music, people, style of dress, etc...).

Jon.

Originally Posted by SoCal2NYC

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We've agreed to not speak with eachother until next Friday the 15th. He's taking all of his stuff from my house right now back to his dorm.


Dude, if you want a relationship, look for an adult. If you want to hang out with college bois, don't ***** about being an old fart and not wanting to go out. You can't have both.


BTW, I was at Bergdorf yesterday so I hope you weren't making googly eyes at me cause while I am smoking hot, I am very straight.

Originally Posted by edmorel

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Dude, if you want a relationship, look for an adult. If you want to hang out with college bois, don't ***** about being an old fart and not wanting to go out. You can't have both.


BTW, I was at Bergdorf yesterday so I hope you weren't making googly eyes at me cause while I am smoking hot, I am very straight.

I know I know....like I said them boiz are delicious; but, when it comes down to it I think I have realized that I need a "man". Someone who is more stable in their own life, grounded, might actually take ME out to dinner.

And no I wasn't at BG the other day; plus, I doubt you were on the 3rd Floor.

Also, it's not that I really didn't get the feeling that he didn't want to be with me doing something low key. It's not like he sat there fidgeting or texting the whole time; but, just in the back of my mind I would think "If he wasn't here with me he would be doing the exact oppostie" so it got me to thinking we were not on the same wave length.

That and sex went from every night to 3-4x a week.

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BTW, I was at Bergdorf yesterday so I hope you weren't making googly eyes at me cause while I am smoking hot, I am very much into straight to the A.
yeah, we know.

Originally Posted by SoCal2NYC

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That and sex went from every night to 3-4x a week.
How are you able to walk after getting your hole torn up every night?

Originally Posted by edmorel

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BTW, I was at Bergdorf yesterday so I hope you weren't making googly eyes at me cause while I am smoking hot, I am very straight.
Glad you had to qualify your uber-straightness. Did you buy me some chicken salad?

Originally Posted by Connemara

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How are you able to walk after getting your hole torn up every night?

Oh please.

Originally Posted by SoCal2NYC

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Oh please.

Don't take Conne too personally, I think he just releasing pent-up rage.

Jon.

Originally Posted by SoCal2NYC

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And no I wasn't at BG the other day; plus, I doubt you were on the 3rd Floor.

That and sex went from every night to 3-4x a week.

I occassionally visit the 3rd Floor, more so on sale days but the first and second are my hangouts.


The sex thing is a function of your time together. Any relationship will have that happen after certain time together. It ebbs and flows after that. It just sounds likes you want the benefits of young multiple partners but wrapped up in a single stable long term relationship. Let me know how that goes. That may be harder to find than a cure for cancer.

There is always Conne.

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There is always Conne.
As you well know, I'm not cheap. And I don't accept asparagus dollars.

Well sexually he was rather "liberated", he would let me have as many 3 ways with us as we wanted.