Amusing Girl Encounter

I had a pretty amusing encounter this weekend. I used to date this beautiful latina back in St. Pete. She was really hot and really amazing in the sack. As is usually the case, she was also pretty crazy and asked me to move in with her after three weeks. So, I dragged it out another week or so and then broke up with her. She did not take it well and was really angry. This was back in August.

Anyway, this weekend I go back home to Gasparilla (a big Mardi Gras-style parade in Tampa) and get pretty plastered. Not thinking too right, I call her up and much to my surprise she answers and we go out, get some drinks and go back to my hotel.

We're going at it, she looks amazing, beautiful brown skin against the white sheets - it's just awesome. Anyway, after a while I go south to attend to her needs, she loves it, and I move up to hopefully take care of hers again and attend to mine, and am about halfway in and she says "ya know, I really don't think that's a good idea", smirks, pushes me away, and turns over.

I actually respected her for that. It was pretty funny - I guess she felt like she got her "revenge". I told her that was okay and just spooned her and we both passed out.

In the morning she apologized but I told her it was her body and I had no problem and thought she did the right thing. (Women always love it when they do something dramatic to provoke a response and you shrug it off).

I don't really do the casual thing all that much, so maybe this is common, but I thought it was pretty funny.

You've gotta have principles. It's her body and you have to respect that, even if she was being vindictive. In the alternative, begging for it would've fed right into her plan, and I could see that she was just trying to prove a point. If I hadn't've been drunk enough to pass out without being frustrated/sore, I'd've just gone into the bathroom, relieved myself, and gone to bed. That said, it's a bit easier to show that sort of discipline when you're 31. Anyway, my friends were all pretty amused.

Wow, I typed my previous post before I read this. Yes, if I hadn't've been drunk I'd've done that. No shame about it whatsoever, in fact, I would've probably told her exactly what I was doing.