Give up and then enjoy every drop of it! Life is too short to worry about restricting your pleasures. Also, aging can be good for men - gives them more authority and a certain sex appeal. Peter O'Toole has been a life long drinker and he doesn't look too bad for the wear, although it certainly took something of a toll on his complexion. Perhaps you should just decide to enjoy the next five years as much as possible - meaning casting aside discipline - and then accept that for the fifty after that you will be fat, boring, lacking sex appeal, and chained to a computer crunching numbers, plotting strategy and scrutinizing regulations. At least you will have five good years that way. The other fifty are likely to be mediocre even if you do restrict your drinking now. As for becoming a fatty, there's something romantic about the helplessness and weakness of that state. And the long, depressing drift into obesity befits a falling hero. It doesn't matter if you never were a hero. Accepting lard seems more noble than the strict and vainglorious combat against it - a phenomenon that reeks of the suburbs and rat racers. With love and comfort coming so easy for so many men these days, it is only fatties who can truly experience yearning and unrequited desires. Have I revealed too many of my own challenges and fears in this post? Well, yet another example of throwing caution to the wind. Sometimes, online postings are the closest I come to real risk and adventure. Frightening...
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12/18/07 at 7:54am








