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post #1 of 42
11/26/07 at 3:49pm
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All the worthwhile women in your area seem to be taken?? That's how I've been feeling lately. All the beautiful, smart ones with the nice attitude and warm personality whom I enjoy conversing with that I've met seem to be taken. Truthfully it sucks that I'm stuck with all the dumb ones . I don't mean to be an asshole..but I'm kind of tired of only shagging.

Anyone??
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post #2 of 42
11/26/07 at 3:51pm
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Originally Posted by kakaroach View Post
but I'm kind of tired of only shagging.

Anyone??


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post #3 of 42
11/26/07 at 3:59pm
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.but I'm kind of tired of only shagging. Anyone??
Tired of doing the dirty? Cannot compute.
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post #4 of 42
11/26/07 at 4:07pm
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Tired of doing the dirty? Cannot compute.

Probably because you've never gotten enough to tire of it.

I suspect he's more tired of the pursuit than the act itself.
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post #5 of 42
11/26/07 at 4:15pm
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It has become too repetitive. Everything is the same with the "OMG" type girl (the exagerated type)..I don't know if I'm explaining myself here. I just wish I would find a woman with more substance who is at the same time available.
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post #6 of 42
11/26/07 at 4:33pm
Too bad hamlet is no longer around to give advice on picking up women with SOs.
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post #7 of 42
11/26/07 at 4:36pm
My advice is to hang around the hoop. "Taken" girls become available (unless you mean married?) so if you had a good connection, just check in from time to time to say hi and what's up.

My best relationships, including my wife, were "taken" when I first met them
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post #8 of 42
11/26/07 at 5:15pm
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I guess I can hang around a little. This is really bugging me though..
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post #9 of 42
11/26/07 at 5:50pm
It's a numbers game, my friend. You need to keep meeting girls whenever and wherever you can -- e.g., join a book club, go to museums, shop at high-end grocery stores, volunteer in your community, go to church, go shopping at the mall, go to lectures at your local university, go to Match.com, run a 10K or a marathon or a triathalon, travel abroad, etc. etc. Arrange to meet girls for quick dates at coffee shops -- that way you won't waste more than half an hour if she's not what you're looking for. Arrange multiple coffee shop dates for the same day at the same coffee shop. Think "assembly line". Remember -- it's a numbers game. They're out there -- you just have to turn over enough stones.
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post #10 of 42
11/26/07 at 6:04pm
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Originally Posted by amerikajinda View Post
It's a numbers game, my friend. You need to keep meeting girls whenever and wherever you can -- e.g., join a book club, go to museums, shop at high-end grocery stores, volunteer in your community, go to church, go shopping at the mall, go to lectures at your local university, go to Match.com, run a 10K or a marathon or a triathalon, travel abroad, etc. etc. Arrange to meet girls for quick dates at coffee shops -- that way you won't waste more than half an hour if she's not what you're looking for. Arrange multiple coffee shop dates for the same day at the same coffee shop. Think "assembly line". Remember -- it's a numbers game. They're out there -- you just have to turn over enough stones.

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post #11 of 42
11/26/07 at 6:10pm
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What so wrong with amerikajinda's advice? Even a broken clock is right twice a day.
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post #12 of 42
11/26/07 at 6:12pm
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What so wrong with amerikajinda's advice? Even a broken clock is right twice a day.
You don't see what's wrong in joing clubs and designing activities simply to meet women? Add all the hours in that post and that's about 100% of a person's free time devoted to chasing girls. I'd contend this is psychiatric material right there and that any girl who actually wants to spend time with such a man is likely a professional therapist
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post #13 of 42
11/26/07 at 6:22pm
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You don't see what's wrong in joing clubs and designing activities simply to meet women? Add all the hours in that post and that's about 100% of a person's free time devoted to chasing girls. I'd contend this is psychiatric material right there and that any girl who actually wants to spend time with such a man is likely a professional therapist

Well I mean if you're a single guy and you'd like to have a girlfriend, then by all means you should spend most of your free time meeting and dating new women. You should of course join clubs and partake in activities that interest you -- then you'll stand a better chance of meeting someone who shares your interests. And it goes without saying that once you meet someone who interests you then you should stop meeting new women. And you don't have to tell any of the new women that you're meeting tons of women -- you just meet tons of women until you meet the right woman, and you meet them at coffee shops so that you don't waste whole evenings by going to movies or restaurants.

If you're single, then you should have at least seven dates a week.
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post #14 of 42
11/26/07 at 6:28pm
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If you're single, then you should have at least seven dates a week.

Now we know what you do away from SF...

Riiiighttt.
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post #15 of 42
11/26/07 at 6:35pm
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Now we know what you do away from SF...

Riiiighttt.

I'm headed right now to a coffee shop date!
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