I said the guy was the bf but it is only an assumption. He may be a coworker, a friend, or whatever. Why give up a chance when you don't know for sure? And even if it is the insignificant other, unless a girl is married (and often even if she is) she's fair game. And I can tell you from experience that there are A LOT of girls out there who feel the same way. In fact, they are almost always looking for something better, the Upgrade. It's genetic. Even married chicks do it. And girls are so sensitive to come ons and attention, they know before the guys do what's goin on. And more times than not they are flirting right back at you. Doesn't necessarily mean they're serious, but they LOVE the game. It feeds their vanity.
You guys have such an idealized picture of women. They're not that different than us guys when it comes to playin around.
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TyCooN 
Befriend the guy first and subtly get to the girl.
Yes, I thought of this, but the endgame would be too drawn out. You'd have to hook up with the guy again and hope that you've got a shot to get to the girl. I prefer the idea of waiting for the chance to catch her alone, away from the guy, and talking to her briefly and either asking for her # or giving her yours. Stealth is the name of the game since she'll be playin round behind his back anyway.