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Girls interested in you because of your money?

post #1 of 48
10/15/07 at 11:51pm
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Figure this might be a problem experienced here by a few. This girl is way out of my league, not just because she has a cute face on a thin frame, but because she's got a super womenly body (think selma hayak). I am 20 and look younger, thin, short. This girl might be older then me and could already be a trophy wife for a doctor or a lawyer. She probably doesn't have a lot of money (as most people don't here in Cleveland), she's brought the same some what dirty juicy couture velor purse (gag). She comes from work (probably makes $10-12 an hour) in her sexy secretary clothes, but you can tell she lacks a proper budget for clothes. If she wasn't so physically out my league, I would not care that's she's not wealthy. For some reason it just makes me feel like less of a man, but I'd still like to get with her. I've never had a girl like this show interest the same way. Has anyone dealt with this situation in life?
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post #2 of 48
10/16/07 at 12:12am
What makes you think it is your money she is enthralled with and not your obvious charm? ...and at 20, what difference does it make?
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post #3 of 48
10/16/07 at 12:34am
Without knowing you and her, I can't really tell which one of the millions of reasons that a girl can like a guy is the one that attracts her to you. However, I can tell you a few things about women being attracted to my wallet, and not me (not that I have all that much money, just more than I have charm ). Whenever a friend would say, "What if she's just dating you for your money?", I'd jokingly reply, "Why do you think I make it?" Then I met a couple of women who really made me see the light. If a woman calls you saying she needs $2500 to get her car fixed, the correct response is, "I'm really sorry to hear that. I can give you a ride to work until you earn the money." If you get engaged, and a week later she says she wants to quit her job, have you get her an apartment (so she doesn't have to live with her parents anymore), and needs an allowance for expenses, the correct response is, "It seems like you aren't the one for me." If she's a cute girl in her early twenties and doesn't have a lot of nice stuff, I'd hold off on worrying about her being a gold-digger until/unless you have her asking you to buy her expensive things. Besides, if she really wanted to be a trophy wife, why wouldn't she be dating that rich doctor or lawyer? * Caveat: I'm assuming you and your family aren't worth millions of dollars.
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post #4 of 48
10/16/07 at 12:46am
I'm worth billions, but women don't seem all that interested in me.
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post #5 of 48
10/16/07 at 12:58am
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Originally Posted by Connemara View Post
I'm worth billions, but women don't seem all that interested in me.

How can that be? From your post I can ascertain that you obviously have a lot of drugs, that should help you get women.

Jon.
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post #6 of 48
10/16/07 at 1:08am
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How can that be? From your post I can ascertain that you obviously are doing a lot of drugs, that should help you get women. Jon.
Fixed.
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post #7 of 48
10/16/07 at 4:56am
Dude, are you oozing cash and making yourself look that obvious? If yes, then you probably deserve what you get. If she's interested in you, why don't you just take it and run. See how far you can take the relationship. You're right, if you think you don't deserve a girl in this league, you probably don't. Be a man and grow a pair already.
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post #8 of 48
10/16/07 at 5:32am
Generally, most gals date up.
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post #9 of 48
10/16/07 at 10:35am
Wait, Cavalier, are you saying you think she's into you for your money or you don't know if you should be into her cause she's not wealthy?

And really why should you care less? Date her for a bit (make sure you don't get her preggers) then move on.
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post #10 of 48
10/16/07 at 12:18pm
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How can that be? From your post I can ascertain that you obviously have a lot of drugs, that should help you get women.

Jon.

Don't forget the billions he made off selling hundreds of copies of the Youtube video to rich San Franciscans.

JB
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post #11 of 48
10/16/07 at 12:23pm
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Fixed.

I thought that was implied.

Jon.
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post #12 of 48
10/16/07 at 12:46pm
If you feel like this is a problem, I recommend graduate school.
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post #13 of 48
10/16/07 at 12:52pm
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Originally Posted by Cavalier View Post
If she wasn't so physically out my league, I would not care that's she's not wealthy.
For some reason it just makes me feel like less of a man, but I'd still like to get with her. I've never had a girl like this show interest the same way

Its called 'punching above your weight' and I say go for it! Since you lack self esteem this might be your only chance to score with a hottie.
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post #14 of 48
10/17/07 at 12:17am
At 20, unless you're some trust fund kid I'm guessing you don't have a lot of money. Chicks who are into guys for money go for the real deal; athletes, entertainers, lawyers or doctors. Sorry to break it to you bub, but it ain't your money she's after.

Maybe she's looking for an F buddy
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post #15 of 48
10/17/07 at 11:28am
Unless you're already treating her with elaborate dinners and gifts, why worry about it? Just go for it and if she starts asking for cash, then you'll know. But at least try to hit it until a realy problem actually arises.
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