^Thanks, that does help.
That doesn't bother me anymore - mostly I just avoid places where bro's that say that bullshit congregate (e.g. shitty clubs and bars). Although, the last time I went to one some brah called me a fag and for the life of me I couldn't figure out why - I was wearing stuff to fit in for the benefit of my friends - a normal button down, new standards, and oxfords. Maybe he noticed the shirt fit and the shoes weren't square toe

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Weird that the decision is getting so much easier for me. We'll see when the money becomes available.