^Thanks, that does help.
That doesn't bother me anymore - mostly I just avoid places where bro's that say that bullshit congregate (e.g. shitty clubs and bars). Although, the last time I went to one some brah called me a fag and for the life of me I couldn't figure out why - I was wearing stuff to fit in for the benefit of my friends - a normal button down, new standards, and oxfords. Maybe he noticed the shirt fit and the shoes weren't square toe
Weird that the decision is getting so much easier for me. We'll see when the money becomes available.