I'm sure a lot of you remember my relationship disaster from way back in January when I joined here; I've recovered myself from that and moved right on.
Here's my issue, I'm stuck. I'm not too experienced with girls so I don't know what the message this girl is giving off, if any.
There's one specific girl in my physics class that I had never talked to, never done anything at all with before. The only time she had ever spoken to me before last week was on 9/11, she made a comment about my uniform. Sometime last week she started making compliments about my clothing I wear to school (thanks Styleforum!!
), I didn't think much of it. This week she began doing some things that she hasn't done, just today she asked to feel my bicep and then asked me if I had a girlfriend (or boyfriend, I was flattered 
) I don't know if this is enough for you guys to go off of and help me out, but I'd like to go for this one if I can. I'd like to take her out to lunch or something like that but I'm not sure how to go about it, all her friends sit around her during class and I don't want it to be embarrassing for either of us.
Suggestions? Comments? Concerns? Anything is appreciated.
Thanks, guys
JB
Here's my issue, I'm stuck. I'm not too experienced with girls so I don't know what the message this girl is giving off, if any.
There's one specific girl in my physics class that I had never talked to, never done anything at all with before. The only time she had ever spoken to me before last week was on 9/11, she made a comment about my uniform. Sometime last week she started making compliments about my clothing I wear to school (thanks Styleforum!!
), I didn't think much of it. This week she began doing some things that she hasn't done, just today she asked to feel my bicep and then asked me if I had a girlfriend (or boyfriend, I was flattered ) I don't know if this is enough for you guys to go off of and help me out, but I'd like to go for this one if I can. I'd like to take her out to lunch or something like that but I'm not sure how to go about it, all her friends sit around her during class and I don't want it to be embarrassing for either of us.Suggestions? Comments? Concerns? Anything is appreciated.
Thanks, guys
JB
Just ask her dude. She couldn't make it any more clear. At worst, try and catch her between classes if you don't want to ask in front of everyone. And better than lunch (you have nowhere to go except back to class, it puts a timer on you, and it might be hard to keep other people at school from crashing your party), ask her to do something after school, a movie or whatever casual activity people do where you live. It's not like she's some random chick that doesn't know you and anything beyond coffee or a quick lunch will make her hesitant..
