Desperation is never attractive and her talk about marriage and kids, 2 weeks into a relationship, sends up a big, big red flag. I would ask myself "Does she appreciate me for who I am or because I'm available?". Your discomfort seems to answer the question, but I suggest you give some careful thought to (1) your evidence that she cares about you for who you are and (2) your own desire for marriage and kids (i.e. does the talk of marriage and kids "too often" reflect your own attitudes [fears] about marriage and kids?). Either way, it seems the two of you may be on two different schedules. If I cared about someone, I would continue seeing them and insist the relationship proceed at a rate that makes me comfortable, but realize that this may cause an irreconcilable split at some point. Edit: Questions like "do you like me for who I am or (only) sexually" are legitimate questions in a relationship, but you should only need to answer them once. If they become a constant, they indicate either (1) you're not providing enough verbal feedback about your feelings or (2) your girl is needy. Have you told _her_ that she has a "beauty, warm and supportive personality"? If not, why not?