Well, the thing about this girl is, its not like I am super super interested in her, she is one of my coworkers so we have had time to hang out in the past. We already know bits and pieces about eachother and email eachother a lot. The dating game in Japan is a different beast than in the US. Lots of girls want to go on group dates for the first run, if I didnt know her somewhat before hand I would be stuck in that situation. This girl is really innocent and nice (I mean like no experience, but is sweet and mostly cute). All in all I just dont want to pressure her or anything. Originally I wanted to go to a "Planetarium Bar", but since she wont be drinking booze and its an all you can drink + course food deal, I'd rather keep that one in my back pocket for a later date or a different girl. Lots of really unconventional date places here and actually shooting pool is pretty unusual. Maybe, Ill take her to that for the start then take her to Omotesando and stroll through the Christmas illumination. Edit: she canceled for Tues, sick and has homework due next week after the holiday. Planning on meeting up on Thanksgiving I guess. Oh and Rube, your age and wisdom show in every post.