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Originally Posted by
GoodnessGracious 
I'm hanging up w/ the overseas girl. Didn't really make sense, just a short spat of confusion and ambivalence for some reason.
What the gf don't ask, I don't tell
This is stupid to me. If you plan on being in a serious relationship, I would hope that you would respect your SO enough to be able to tell them what has happened. If you don't respect her enough to give her that, then I don't see the purpose of being in the relationship. Basically, to go on as such makes absolutely no sense. You're only headed towards more trouble.
Either a) tell her what happened, or b) tell her what happened and end things with her. To be honest, I would not expect her to forgive you, although she may (it was only a kiss, after all. and the desire to be with another woman...). If she does, you should be forever grateful. If not, chalk it up as a lesson learned and move on. You will feel like shit, and deservedly so.