I hand wash the more delicate Rick tees and air dry them. For machine wash, in cold cycle and dry at the lowest setting.
Hand wash in a bucket with a tiny bit of Woolite, dry flat on a towel. Don't ever hang knits, especially when wet, or they will stretch.
The black ones will leak a shit ton of black dye so you might want to do them separate from the others.
I'm guessing the size 43 Ramone will be big on you. I wear US10 slip-on Vans, US10 Chuck Purcells and 43 for my Ramones. 43 in Geobaskets also but I find they fit slightly looser than my Ramones.