i think i'm going to grasp the back of her head, forcefully, and whisper passionately, "I want to fuck the life out of you." Don't women like that?
I could just wait 'till she falls asleep. If she wakes up, I can use the classic "Uhh, I fell onto your vagina with my erect penis while looking for the bathroom. I've been trying to get it out, but no luck so far."
There is hope for you yet.
Some of the posts in this thread made me wonder...do all of you guys really lose interest in a woman as a friend if she doesn't wanna bang you? I probably have an equal number of male and female comrades but tend to have more fun with the latter. Some of my "best friends" (women) don't even appear attractive anymore. They're just like one of the guys...I don't actively think about fooling around in the sack with them.
Is this odd?
Is this odd?
The difference is whether you try, fail and then accept being friends as a consolation prize while secretly hoping/plotting to get the girl for real, or if you feel it out from the start, decide it wouldn't work and then choose to be friends.
Another little secret is that among certain groups of people (mostly good looking ones who don't take sex so seriously) getting drunk and hooking up with friends happens frequently, but if you act like you would take it seriously and start getting clingy, it will not happen to you.
Calling her now and being like "Hey, why didn't you phone me back?" would be a bad idea I take it? Let her come to me type of thing?
Saying that sounds lame and whiny. Just say something like "I have a fifth of (whatever) I could use help with, your place or mine?" Never imply that you won't be perfectly content without her presence.
Which brings up another point - don't wait for girls to call you, don't ask them to call you, don't expect them to call you, don't text them and hope for a reply. You call, if you leave a message it is "I'm heading out to go ___, wondered if you wanted to go with but you weren't there, maybe I'll call back later." Not "call me if you want to __". Also, always only give them a choice between not yes and no, but "yes option 1" and "yes option 2", e.g. "we should get coffee this week, is wednesday or thursday better for you?"