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post #31 of 286
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everyone's just bustin your balls! call her back when you have some time to talk to her.

Hopefully my friend kept his mouth shut. Wish me luck.

Jon.
post #32 of 286
good luck. and - don't overthink this. she's probably doing the same.
post #33 of 286
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good luck. and - don't overthink this. she's probably doing the same.

I can only hope (she is insanely smart and we already talked how our minds move a mile a minute).

Jon.
post #34 of 286
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Give it time, then call her again. If she blows you off again then the first date didn't go as well as you thought.

+1 this may in some way be some sort of weird test girls play, to see how infatuated you are with her. I would say let her see you have a life, and call her back in a couple days.
post #35 of 286
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I would say let her see you have a life, and call her back in a couple days.


I would only agree with this if one really has a life that keeps from calling, but since Jon's been so active in this thread for the past 3 hours wondering why she hadnt called (then missed her call), why play games.....just call whenever you have time. Which is probably anywhere between *right now* to *later this afternoon*
post #36 of 286
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Well, she just called...but I missed the phone call She left a voice mssg asking me how work was and to call her back. hol ong should I wait to call her back?

Jon.

If you've got time to call her this evening, I'd do so. If not, let it roll over until tomorrow. But imho waiting a whole day just for appearances' sake is too gamey.
post #37 of 286
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Really? I should play the "you made me wait, let me make you wait game"? Surely, waiting a few hours should be good enough.

Jon.

post #38 of 286
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I would say let her see you have a life, and call her back in a couple days.

In my opinion (for whatever that may be worth), that's not "letting her see you have a life". That's faking a life because you think you're a playa.
post #39 of 286
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Well, I can't call later cus I have friends coming over to watch the Argentina v Mexico game...

So, I either call her before then, or tomorrow. I have a life, I just don't do anything at work.

Jon.
post #40 of 286
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Well, I can't call later cus I have friends coming over to watch the Argentina v Mexico game...

So, I either call her before then, or tomorrow. I have a life, I just don't do anything at work.

Jon.

My take on it is the same as Jason's. If you've got time and feel like talking to her, go ahead and call her now. If it's not a good time or aren't in the mood, do it tomorrow. But just go with what feels good, not what you think might be the "right move".
post #41 of 286
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My take on it is the same as Jason's. If you've got time and feel like talking to her, go ahead and call her now. If it's not a good time or aren't in the mood, do it tomorrow. But just go with what feels good, not what you think might be the "right move".

Yeah, I would rather find out sooner than later if its going to work out of not.

Edit: I just called and her voice mail, so I left her a message to call me back...the fun continues.

Jon.
post #42 of 286
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Edit: I just called and her voice mail, so I left her a message to call me back...the fun continues.

Jon.



Forget about girls, come play eq! It will consume your life and you'll never think about women again!

edit: other than the sexy DEs and WEs in-game.!
post #43 of 286
How far have you gone with her? I think this is an important piece of information. Maybe I overlooked it somewhere...
post #44 of 286
well Jon, it sounds like you have found someone just gullible enough to believe you may be a decent catch. No accounting for the taste of some people Stop fretting, roll with it, and enjoy it. Good luck.
post #45 of 286
the more you call, the more you look like a wuss and women hate guys who are wusses! DON'T DO IT, EVER

you're best play would have been to not swap phone numbers ( so old fashioned) but emails because that way you can keep in touch much more informally

but since you did have her phone number, you should not have left a voicemail but sent a quick text message that you are going out with friends for drinks on some future non-prime-time night (next Tuesday!) and ask if she has time to join you

that way you look like you have a life and throw the ball in her court to either decline or suggest something else (if she is truly interested, she will)

by calling her back you may have already proved to her that you're just like every other desperate guy, but for your sake I hope not
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