[quote=amerikajinda;588401]I'll suggest that to him -- it's a great idea to volunteer for meals-on-wheels or some such so he can meet good people in the lgbt community.
Originally Posted by iammatt
I agree with this. No offense to anybody who happens to be gay, but the idea of a mans body or parts is revolting to me. That does not mean that I can't determine whether a man is attractive, just like I can do so with art or a car, but the idea of attraction or, even worse, contact is repulsive.
The idea of love is tricky. I don't happen to have anybody outside of my family that I "love", but I suppose others might.
No offence to both of you, but what you said smack of homophobia. Would you find the below questionable if used in different context, e.g.
Hey, perhaps I should go volunteer at the Red Cross so I can meet some good people in the straight community.
And no offence to anyone who happens to be Asian or black or of a certain race (for the sake of argument), but the idea of ..... is revolting to me. That does not mean that I can't determine whether an Asian or whoever is attractive, just like I can do so with art or a car, but the idea of attraction or even worse, contact with an Asian , etc is repulsive.