Exactly. Grenadines are lovely, and SF-gold, but they're not what you need most right now. Look again at those neat pattern Macclesfields, madders and challises.
First off, no on the one that picked out?
I am not comfortable, yet, with something like the 2nd one. The 1st one looks good.
Of Clag's two picks there, I also picked out the first one: it's more formal (I think) than a grenadine, and about as plain as you can go with a solid and not be completely dull. But on his second pick, I think this is where you have to take a leap of faith, dear Noodles: that one isn't my favourite as I find the colour a bit bright, but in pattern and scale it's exactly what you need.
I keep looking at this one and this one below.
Why of course! I PM'd Stitchie and told him some specs. I needed my fiance to figure out what the heck she wants so I told her to just walk into Tiffany's and try on different ring and figure out which carrot size is the best for her and which design she likes. I will never buy from Tiffany's though. Once that's squared away, I need to call Stitchie.