Naw, it's all good. The tie that I got, and now Coxsackie should be getting, was just not to my liking for couple of reasons. It was just too fat to complement my narrow jacket lapels. So it looked funny. Also, I am a 4IH guy and the tie looked really funny with a tiny knot and a big fat blade. Things were just not proportional. Next time I order, I will go with 3.35".
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In fairness to Cappelli, that looks exactly 3.55 inches (3 and 9/16). But water under bridge I take it so long as you are back on good terms with him.
You can use a double four in hand to increase the size of the knot a touch. I do this often with wimpy knots, so long as there is enough length in the tie.