Well, I wonder if ever you and I could peg it up in a SF Golf Challenge?
Maybe a very difficult, if not impossible, thing to arrange but it would be nice wouldn't it dear friend?
Whenever you play, play well B!
If you care about clothes, a knowledgeable and expert tailor is a must.
I am puzzled about the Windsor helping with the width of the tie. In the pic, I think a lot would be taken care of if you had appropriately wide lapels in the jacket. The incongruity between the thinner lapels and the width of the front blade is what's really throwing it off for me in this pic. I don't think tie's width is off putting (though I am inclined to say that if it was 1/4 inch or so narrower, that would be better).
Perhaps it's a larger knot on top balancing with the bottom that helps? But do explain this magic with a pic!
Have you tried a double FIH or shelby/pratt knot? Anyway, regardless of the knot, the width of that tie will look great with a double breasted suit or a suit with wider lapels. I've worn a 4" tie with DB suits before, and it doesn't look disproportionate at all. The relation between tie width and lapel width is the most important when it comes to looking good, not the knot.