The reason is quite the contrary. I am not "having fun" because I am extremely unhappy with the results of my investment, time and money. I followed advice given and they have been very helpful except where it hurt my pocket the most. As it has been discussed, the proper style for me should have had more padding in the shoulders. But to my own demise, I followed the herd or the SF trend and just bought without objectively looking at how it was fitting me. So basically, I can't stand looking at the pictures so I quilt. You said I am "so focused on the next thing" but I was hoping to call it a day and settle down before THE RUDE AWAKENING.
You will be back in shape in no time I bet.