...so get her a nice bag and get myself a nice Formosa. Then tell her that it is a package deal.
Anyhow, for her bday I just made a reservation at a restaurant that she loves for her and her 7 other friends (and 3 kids). Lunch bday party with her friends. Dinner will have to be with me.
Or you could get her a cheap bag and you get a suitsuppy suit and you use the rest of the money for a long weekend trip somewhere nice for the two you. Experiences > material goods when it comes to birthday gifts imho.