Balance your tie widths to your lapels (among other things). Big contrasts here can be jarring so I agree with MF, adjust your lapels. That tie is lovely.
I'm like JRD: my sweet spot would be 3 3/8s, but we are talking about an 1/8 of an inch here. Let's not get OCD on the issue (which I have on occasion).
I happily wear 9cm/3.5 inch ties and I have your build. I know others here do as well.
Edited by jrd617 - 2/6/14 at 2:03pm