I have very dark grey, almost black suit with a subtle light grey pinstripe. I absolutely love this suit. I'm going to a wedding November, 9th. My girl is wearing a black dress with turquoise trim. I purchased a matching solid turquoise tie, with a very subtle crosshatch pattern and paired it with a stark white shirt. It's "ok" but I'm not sold. I don't get to dress up often, so when I do, I like to look as classy as possible, and don't mind being a hair overdressed. I tried a white tie with the white shirt, and to me this looks spectacular with the suit, though I'm not sure it's proper. I ordered a white tie with broad turquoise stripes as well as one with smaller multi-width stripes but haven't received them to try as of yet. Am I barking up the wrong tree? Any suggestions?
White tie, without the formality
I hope you have thick skin my friend, because if this thread picks up any steam, you're going to be teared into.
That being said, I'll try being constructive. No white ties. Ever. Unless it's a bow tie and you're meeting The Queen. You will find no love here for matching your date. You're your own man, not a fashion accessory.
I most often find turquoise in the territory of cheap menswear worn by people with little experience and want something that "pops." Often worn with slip on square toed elf loafers.
If you love your suit, that's fine. I would stick with the white shirt, but I agree with the previous poster. A medium grey would be your best bet with the tie. If it was me I'd go with some kind of large-medium scale pattern, a check or herringbone, dots perhaps? Thick stripes like you posted are fine, but the turquoise is terrible and stripes on stripes is a little too American business to feel formal to me.
Creep the WIWT thread, you'll see a lot of good stuff in there.
No white tie. Don't do it. I don't care how good you think it looks...it's terrible. That is a sartorial crime.
Had to get it off my chest.
Skin is thick enough. As I have said, and I'm not sure you guys are reading, I wasn't fond of the turquoise either, which is why I'm here asking for help. I usually wear this suit with a silver tie, but I'm looking for something different. If asking a question on a style forum about help with style gets me torn into then perhaps I'm in the wrong place. Possibly, I should stick to the sales girl at Macy's that'll pick me out something that looks "hot". I have two suits, the one I posted and a heather grey three-piece. The wedding party is wearing grey so I opted not to so, the suit with the wrong stripes is it. With that said, I'll certainly take your opinions seriously and hopefully I'll come up with something.
Edited by wannabestyled - 11/4/13 at 1:51am
The white tie idea is not really on either and is certainly not "classy", you would be better to make an impression (if you must when it is not your day) by classic understated elegance than giving the impression of having chosen whatever is crass in a shop.