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Everytime I see one of her videos I have to wonder which Uncle touched her.
post #302 of 5586
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Originally Posted by hendrix View Post

There have been points in my life that I genuinely enjoyed having sex with a variety of different women.

That said, there have certainly been points where it was wrong and excessive and self-damaging, but I can quite clearly remember times when I wouldn't have called it unhealthy.

It should be pretty self evident if it's destructive behaviour.

Nothing wrong with meaningful one night relationships.
post #303 of 5586
Also, believe it or not, men are not the same as women. I know that's hard to believe, unless you've ever know a woman.
post #304 of 5586
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Also, believe it or not, men are not the same as women. I know that's hard to believe, unless you've ever know a woman.

Stop your ciswhitemaleomg privilege.
post #305 of 5586
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Q. Late Night Sidewalk Etiquette: I'm a young man who works late as a bartender in an urban area. I walk home usually at 2 a.m. I often find myself half a block behind women (either alone or in pairs) going home the same route. How do I act so that they don't fear me as a potential predator? Cross the street? Slow down (looks like stalking) or greet them (equally creepy)? Help!

A: There is nothing that gets a woman's sympathetic nervous system on high alert like hearing footfalls behind her at 2 a.m. Thanks for being sensitive to this. Since you see the woman looming ahead of you, it would be a nice thing to do to cross the street before you're close enough so that she starts glancing behind her, clutching her purse.

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2013/10/dear_prudence_my_fiancee_wants_to_be_in_my_family_photos_at_the_wedding.html

We CISgendered raping scum need to cross the street away from women so they don't fear our penises. Presumably genderqueer and trans individuals are permitted to remain on the same side of the street.
post #306 of 5586
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http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2013/10/dear_prudence_my_fiancee_wants_to_be_in_my_family_photos_at_the_wedding.html

We CISgendered raping scum need to cross the street away from women so they don't fear our penises. Presumably genderqueer and trans individuals are permitted to remain on the same side of the street.









post #307 of 5586
I bet you "Kellogg's Pep" is crystal meth
post #308 of 5586
"Blow in her face and she'll follow you anywhere."

Once I've blown in her face, I'm ready for her to get dressed and leave, so I can get some sleep.
post #309 of 5586
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Originally Posted by SixOhNine View Post

"Blow in her face and she'll follow you anywhere."

Once I've blown in her face, I'm ready for her to get dressed and leave, so I can get some sleep.

post #310 of 5586
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Also, believe it or not, men are not the same as women. I know that's hard to believe, unless you've ever know a woman.

obviously men are not the same as women but I don't understand why this means that promiscuity is a sign of them being unhappy.
post #311 of 5586
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obviously men are not the same as women but I don't understand why this means that promiscuity is a sign of them being unhappy.

I didn't say that. I said that it seems to go hand in hand with unhappiness.
post #312 of 5586
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Originally Posted by munchausen View Post

I didn't say that. I said that it seems to go hand in hand with unhappiness.

Just so we are clear, some who indulge in frequent meaningful one night relationships may be doing such as a symptom of their unhappiness, but not all who do such are necessarily unhappy. Correct?
post #313 of 5586
I don't know about "all" of anything, I'm just saying that the women I've known who were promiscuous were always unhappy women who had pretty clear evidence of personality disorders seperate from their promiscuity. I don't think it's healthy for men or women but for women but it doesn't seem to have quite the same association for men. I could speculate about why that is but I'm not an expert.
post #314 of 5586
TBH, I have always wondered how much of the mental anguish is the combination of the crash from the sex high and the unjustified stigma associated with sex vs. it being a symptom of some sort of mental issue.

Frankly, I don't think I have ever met anyone who was "normal." I have found that the ones that seem that way are always have some sort of mental issues. I think we are all a little bit cray cray in our own way.
post #315 of 5586
Well there's the thing: I don't think the stigma is necessarily unjustified. There are negative consequences to spreading it around too much, and those consequences are amplified for women. The guilt is an instinct.
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