Usually we ask girls out we know to some degree, friends of friends, etc. But I find that since college, I don't know most of the girls I want to ask out. What is the most successful way to ask these girls out? Three candidates:
1.Girl at grocery store-Rocker/skater chick. She helped me find an item one time and had a sexy smile and laugh. I think she goes to college, looks 21-23. I find myself stupidly going to the grocery store for no reason at all and end up buying 1 thing that is not crucial.
2.Girl at work-I kind of know her, talked to her casually a couple of times. We work in different departments(me-R&D, her-sales). I think she might be an intern. Or a new grad. Either 22 or 23. Kind and good-hearted girl. Only problem is she smokes. Never been with a girl who smokes regularly, I wonder if it's gross.
3.Girl at gym-Athletic chick. 5'8, doesn't weigh more than 120lbs but can squat 145 lbs, which I found incredibly sexy since she was in tights that showed her nice ass and toned legs. A bit of a tomboy so I can probably talk sports with her. Probably lowerclassman in college, looks 19/20 yrs old.
I am 28 and consider myself a diverse person in terms of interests, but most people "label" me as an athletic/clean cut type because of my build and dress. Usually in a professional setting I wear a lot of Banana and Ralph Lauren, otherwise I dress in skate/surf/plain ts and blue jeans. Most people also say I look like I still go to college because everyone in my family looks super young.
So which one should I go for, and how should I ask them out?