Jos. A. Bank sells better dress shirts than BR and is nearby, if trying on shirts is a rule. Which seems unwarrated. Most online retailers list measurements, and virtually anything will need at least minor tailoring. Beyind that, if you're like most non-senior members of this site, you probably aren't a great judge of fit. Therefore, post pictures if you want to learn whether shirts and other items fit you well.
For something better than the Cole Haan's at a similar price point...
http://www.zappos.com/florsheim-chatom-black-calfskin-leather#prdInfo
The non-shiny finish and blucher styling are good for business casual. The sole is part leather, which is much more appropriate for an officee than typical 100% rubber.
Footwear is very important to try on before buying, if possible. It could be a different, pricier brand purchased in LA or some other city that has better options than seem to be available locally.
Edited by mensimageconsultant - 2/14/13 at 2:07pm