So, as I have posted elsewhere in this thread (and elsewhere on SF), I am getting married in about a month. I decided to wear a stroller and pieced together the various elements over the last 6 months or so. I finally tried everything on all together, and I am pretty pleased with the overall result. I even modelled it for my fiancee, who had been a little wary of the stroller idea, but she admitted that it looked really nice.
My one question is in regards to my tie. I ordered wedding ties from Kent Wang for each of my groomsmen (glen plaid and houndstooth), as well as a black and white shepherd's check tie for myself. The one concern I have is that I think the shepherd check may be a little too "busy" in combination with the striped stroller pants. Something a little more subdued like the glen plaid or houndstooth may have worked better, but I don't want to wear the same tie as my groomsmen. I asked my fiancee what she thought, and said that something in a smaller pattern (or even just a plain grey/silver tie) may work better, but she was happy to leave it up to me.
Here are the tie and the pants I will be wearing:
For comparison's sake, the other key elements are a dark charcoal grey jacket (w/peaked lapels & jetted pockets), white french cuff shirt, white linen pocket square, black shoes. Any thoughts/opinions on the tie? Am I over-thinking / over-worrying things in the leadup to the wedding, or do you agree that a simpler tie may work better?