A full windsor is an abomination.
FIH, Double FIH, or half-windsor, if you must. Tie your knot a little looser if you want a bigger FIH knot, get thicker ties, etc.
Just when I thought I knew exactly what I was going to wear with my light navy blue Dormeuil suit, my bride had problems with a custom gown she was having made. Subsequently she had to change her dress, and now I'm sort of "up in the air" with what I should wear for my shirt and tie combo. Now her dress will be ivory, so I will be getting a cream shirt made, but I don't know what color tie would look best. I initially was going to go with a trad wedding tie (houndstooth, shepherds check, etc.) now, however, I'm thinking I need something different than a black and white tie.
Any advice/suggestions are greatly appreciated!