For my wedding I plan to wear a 3 piece black tuxedo with vest, winged black buttoned collared shirt and a self tied black bow tie. Similar to below
Now the groommen will be wearing 2 piece black notch lapel suit with white shirt and self tied black bow tie. I've been advised against this as it'll be difficult to distinguish us apart - what are your thoughts? Can you guys suggest an alternative?
You've been advised against this by ... ? Anyway, when you kiss the bride, anyone who is still confused will figure it out. I highly recommend reading www.BlackTieGuide.com before making final decisions on your Tux.