Originally Posted by j
Candles are slightly less girly. If anyone asks, you can say your ex left them there. They do make manlier looking/smelling ones though.
Originally Posted by trampish
Get an essential oil heater... a small candle usually heats up a few drops of essential oil (I suggest lavender) in a ceramic bowl. You shouldn't have much trouble finding one online or in a local offbeat store. It is easy to go overboard with so... crack a window too.
And if you get candles, I'd suggest soy candles. They burn very clean (no black stuff) and the scent is subtle.
Chicks dig candles (and they'll think your brilliant and in touch with your feminine side if you have a diffuser).