Thanks for all the answers. I went for the Kent Wang. I was looking for ties in the websites I sent you and I am amaze to see that most of them come pre tied.
All resolved before I could read the thread....oh well, congratulations on your upcoming wedding. Send us some photos! 5 words to keep you married....'Yes Dear' and 'I Love You'. May all go well and may you both have many happy years together. Welcome to Styleforum.
I have to say, after the direction some of the other recent "Im getting married HALP!!!" threads have gone, this one turned out well--the guy listened to some hard learned wisdom and bought the classics