Personally, I think the way the seam is finished on the AE Delray looks pretty bad, and greatly prefer the Meermin.
That said, is the seam running around the top of the shoe necessary for you? Why? The three styles you posted are getting into square toe territory, and all three are poorly constructed with low-quality leather.
AE, Meermin, or any of the below will be much much much better. None of the soles are going to be too thick.
Consider a plain-toe or captoe blucher instead of a split-toe:
Or even a balmoral if you're planning to wear these with a suit or non-jeans: