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post #16 of 89
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Yeah, I guess because I feel like our schedules are so strange that sometimes for a while the only time we spend together is in the evenings so I need to entertain her to some degree. We do enjoy dinner time together.
post #17 of 89
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I find this to be true. She will ask me how my day was, and to me this question is practically rhetorical. I just respond with, "busy", or "ok" or something like that. She will pry for more information and wants to discuss it. Sometimes I am just tired and don't really want to talk about my day. I find it exhausting sometimes. Whereas I ask her how her day was and she gives me every excruciating detail, which actually I don't mind because it doesn't involve me talking very much or getting wound up by my own office issues.
She has said to me, "do you want to have some time to yourself" especially if it is a weekend and she is also off of work. Sometimes I do, but I feel like it is one of those annyoing woman things where they really mean, "If you want time to yourself I must not mean very much to you."

Women are so different in some ways. I've been answering questions at work all day, the last thing I want to do is walk home and immediately get the third degree. I told Laura that early on and she completely respects that. She'll give me a half hour or so to unwind and then I usually ask her about her day. Communication is a must - not just the mindless chatter that women love so much, but also you telling her what you need. If it's reasonable, she should respect it. If not, you should probably move on.
post #18 of 89
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You're right, she is very accomodating in like every way. More than any other woman I have known. I am just always afraid she will get all crazy woman on me.
post #19 of 89
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You're right, she is very accomodating in like every way. More than any other woman I have known. I am just always afraid she will get all crazy woman on me.

Jesus christ son, quit being a pussy and just tell her that you need a few minutes every day to have to yourself. To zone out, relax, or watch weird porn. Whatever it may be.
post #20 of 89
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She'd want to watch the weird porn with me.
post #21 of 89
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I am just always afraid she will get all crazy woman on me.

well, that's going to happen anyway, so enjoy your time until the inevitable
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She'd want to watch the weird porn with me.

KEEPER!
post #23 of 89
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She'd want to watch the weird porn with me.

Well, good, that's something you can do together. AFTER you've had your time to yourself.
post #24 of 89
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We tried watching porn together. I just felt it awkward. Porn is for my time only.
post #25 of 89
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We tried watching porn together. I just felt it awkward. Porn is for my time only.

Well there you go.
post #26 of 89
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We tried watching porn together. I just felt it awkward. Porn is for my time only.

well don't jerk off while she's there beside you!

before we got married we talked about having our own personal time, specially since I didn't wanna cut off my seeing my friends just because I'm stuck at home with the wife. wife not only respected that but she also appreciated the fact that we can do our own thing without someone bugging the hell of the other. of course it could be difficult at times, and ime I learned to be extra sensitive whenever she wants more attention than usual. so anyway, even if we're just home, half the time we end up "solo" stuff and she never complains at all.

but porn watching has to wait till she's asleep.
post #27 of 89
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There is this one particular porn site that I can't get enough of for pure intrigue and WTF!?!?. The weirdest, nastiest stuff you ever would want to see. She doesn't like that one.
post #28 of 89
linky linky please
post #29 of 89
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If you really want it pm me.
post #30 of 89
i love the direction this thread took in less than 2 pages
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