Also, I bought a pair of black oxfords almost 3 weeks ago, and the guy first shipped them out yesterday. To be honest, I'm fuming because those shoes were specifically meant to be used this Christmas. Obviously I wont' get them here in time (International shipment, no express option), probably not this year even.
Would I be wrong giving the guy bad/neutral feedback? I'm just so tired of all these Ebay sellers, I've had 4 consecutive sellers screw up my orders now.
Did you contact the seller at all during that period? Pretty sure you forfeited your right to an item not received case by waiting over 14 days to make a claim.
+1 did you follow up in that 3 week time? I follow up after 3 days if I dont see the item shipped. At least you would have been in contact with them to find out what is going on.