I have a huge problem: I'm not able to talk to the fine ladies when I go the club. I'm 18-years-old and I already had some nice girlfriends, a lot of my peers say that I look very good and that I could be a model or an actor, and I'm also satisfied with my outward appearance, BUT I'm still very shy when it comes down to holla at a girl. Last Saturday I was at a very nice location, a huge club with 3 floors, good music, and a lot of hot girls. A lot of chicks where looking at me, flirting with me, but at the end I was too stupid to go to one of them and start talking to her. I just don't know what I should say in that situation.? Everything seems to sound so obvious and childish. Should I just be polite and introduce myself? Should I ask her if she wants a drink? Should I dance with her? What should I do??? What do the women wanna hear? Should I be aggressive or shy? Should I also talk to her even when I'm not sure if she likes me? Maybe you don't have that problem, but for me it's very depressing. I see all these nice girls and afterwards I'm always asking myself why I didn't talk to them.? It's time for me to step up in the place... Well, maybe you have a helpful advice for me. I truly appreciate every input. Thank You. Best Regards, T.M. P.S.: I'm sorry for my bad English... I'm from Italy.
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2/10/03 at 1:59pm