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[Hair Help] I hate my hair! I want to get a girlfriend, so should I shave beard, get haircut, etc?

post #1 of 13
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Here's a link to an album. First 3 pictures are as of right now, and the other 3 are recent pictures of me with different length hair.

I am 20 years old, and I fcking HATE my hairline. It's not receding, it's been like that forever, but I think my hair is thinning regardless.
I haven't let my hair grow out really much at all because I dislike how it looks, but to be fair I haven't given it a real chance.

http://imgur.com/a/SyxBr
post #2 of 13
Dude, your hair looks fine. If you want to get a girlfriend, your hair is not what is stopping you.
post #3 of 13
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post #4 of 13
Clean shave and your hair in the bottom pictures.
post #5 of 13
No constructive suggestion, sorry. But I do hear that women dig guys who shave with a straight razor. However, I'm 100% sure that is not a criteria they look for when first meeting someone.
post #6 of 13
A clean shave would help. So, frankly, would better fitness. The hairline might not be receding, but the temples have. That, the weight, and the beard say mid-20's or older. That could be a problem with some college-age women. Shorter hair overall might help, but that also can accentuate facial pudginess.
post #7 of 13
Since your hair is thin try going short and neat. Go to a good barber, get a long buzz cut all over and a close crop beard trim. Have them shape the beard to come up your neck above your adams apple.
post #8 of 13
Keep it cropped closer. You don't want to end up with jerry curls. Shorter is the way to go for men with very curly hair.
post #9 of 13
the hair is not keeping you from getting a girlfriend, imo.

I would shave and start socializing.
post #10 of 13

I think you're better off keeping your hair short like in the bottom pictures as opposed to growing it out, and I think a close shave would do wonders for your appearance.  The curly hair plus the scraggly beard is a little too much.  My only other advice would be to hit the gym and develop a stellar sense of humor- girls love muscles and jokes.

post #11 of 13
Keep your hair short, get to a gym, eat healthier and get outside and get some color. Although being funny and confident would be 1000x easier and tends to work the best.
post #12 of 13
For the record, I was not trying to be an arse.

I have curly hair and when I was letting it grow I shaved, long hair and facial hair looks bad.

You are not ugly but you do seem to have a little excess weight. Start going to the gym and it will benefit your self esteem and health. Since you're on the forum I assume you know the basics of dressing well, that should get you some points. Be funny and read read read, the few women I have talked to are always wow.gif when I talk. shog[1].gif


There is also thread for questions regarding hair. It helps future members learn and keeps the clutter down.
post #13 of 13
lol the comments were much nicer than I expected for SF.

Yea, If I were you, I'd shave, grow out more hair and do some exercise. Be confident about who you are and be a gentleman.
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