Originally Posted by MarcDominic
Sorry if this is in the wrong sub-forum. And I'd rather ask men because I think fashionable men know more about fashion than an average woman.
Anyway, my girlfriend wears certain outfits to the office that I think are borderline inappropriate and/or maybe too casual for the workplace (officially a busines casual office). Tell me if I'm crazy
, but in the past 2 weeks she's worn:
1 - A very tight short sleeve shirt (not low-cut) with a very padded bra. Her boss had even told someone else "I could barely stare at her face when she was talking to me."
2 - A shirt that hangs off one shoulder and completely exposes her bra strap (red) on that shoulder.
3 - Loose-fitting shirt with no sleeves that, at side view, the arm hole exposes like half of her bra (red bra again).
4 - Outline of thong showing through her pants.
5 - In general, she wears very padded bras, which make her look too top-heavy in my opinion and appear her boobs are fake. She's 5', 94 lbs, and she's already busty for her frame.
I like the way she dresses, I just don't think it's appropriate for work. Or am I just being an a-hole
(what she seems to think)
If she weighs 300 lbs and you can see every ripple of fat under her clothes, then you may have a legitamite concern.
If on the other hand she looks great, then you are definitely being an a$$hole.
I am wagering the latter.
By the way, her boss is also an a$$hole if he has a problem looking her in the eyes. Clearly he is a comprimised individual to objectify and dehumanize a woman.
If you cannot or will not respect your girlfriend then you will lose your girlfriend. You are probably an insecure person to begin with so work on improving yourself.
Here is a tip to stay together ....remember when you first met. you may be suprised to find that what turned you on about her are the very things you complain about now.
Man up. Let her
read and respond to this thread too. I, for one, would be very interested to have her thoughts on the matter.