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Oh hai
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Originally Posted by CalTex View Post

I don't get the "working too much" deal; I know guys that work 80+ hours a week and still go out to meet girls.
Ditto.
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Lay off the OP, guys. Working on a big merger is clearly more important to him than acquiring some poontang.
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Originally Posted by Neo_Version 7 View Post

Lay off the OP, guys. Working on a big merger is clearly more important to him than acquiring some poontang.

 

 

For me, making $$$$ is more important than EVERYTHING.

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^ There's yer sign.
 

Incidentally, stylememerry's post is very sensible.

 

I found my gf while working 8 hrs/day, commuting 5 hrs/day, and going to class  ~4 hrs/day. That's 17hrs door-to-door. Weekends were 10hrs/day studying. Being a working law student who lives/works FAR from school ain't fun.

 

~H

post #516 of 662
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Originally Posted by stylememerry View Post

I don't know if this helps because I am a girl. But I did not lose my virginity till I was 24, society makes a really big deal out of romantic love but in reality it is just one kind of relationship. I am 25 now had have never had a boyfriend my choice I like being single. I have a lot of friends and don't care what other people think. But to have a social life you have to make one I will even go to the bar by myself if all my friends are busy.


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I almost regret posting this next piece of advice because if you read my earlier comments I was really rooting for you, but:

If you really are concerned about making tons of money and want to put forth no social skills in getting "quality girls", find a new job somewhere like New York City.

Get a high paying job and then go to fancy places (expensive restaurants, social lounges, etc.). Make it seem like you have money. You will have women hit on you for all the wrong reasons, but you will get companionship.

However, if you want to stick to your original plan and find a woman that really cares about you, who is special, and who is pretty to boot, then for fucks sake show them why you are all these things. From hearing you talk, I don't even think YOU think you are special.

How can someone love you if you don't even love yourself?
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Originally Posted by stylememerry View Post

I don't know if this helps because I am a girl. But I did not lose my virginity till I was 24, society makes a really big deal out of romantic love but in reality it is just one kind of relationship. I am 25 now had have never had a boyfriend my choice I like being single. I have a lot of friends and don't care what other people think. But to have a social life you have to make one I will even go to the bar by myself if all my friends are busy.

I agree with your sentiments. On a side note, welcome to Styleforum!
post #519 of 662
facepalm.gif this thread.

OP really just doesn't care that much, in spite of his bitching. If he did care enough then he'd actually do something about his predicament.
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Originally Posted by whiteslashasian View Post

facepalm.gif this thread.
OP really just doesn't care that much, in spite of his bitching. If he did care enough then he'd actually do something about his predicament.

Pretty much sums it up. Add a TLDR in front of that and you can save a lot of people the unnecessary read that we call this thread.
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I mean with OP... I'm 19 and despite hooking up with a few girls here and there randomly at parties I've never really gotten laid other than my two girlfriends. I kind of understand how it can just be hard for you to get out there and get laid because I've never picked up a girl to have sex with, but I am sort of content right now with where I am because I am trying to pursue two different girls to form a small relationship with. If you keep making excuses for yourself like working on a company merger, you are never going to get laid.
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OK I don't think post added to much to the discussion so I took it down


Edited by stylememerry - 12/11/12 at 12:23pm
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wat

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Originally Posted by stylememerry View Post

The guys friends I know who get laid the most don't seem to try to hard. Maybe they do and they are like duck on the water. I think they just make a girl feel comfortable. When I was in college there were two fraternities that come to mind. On got laid a lot and had lot of legit female friends the other did not. The one that did not get laid had the highest GPA on campus would brag about money they were going to make from the job they lined up or the grad school they were going to. The other Frat were a bunch of stonier musicians. The thing about the frat that got laid was you knew what happened in the TKE house stayed there were the other they would gossip. One time I hooked up with a TKE brother hook up in the most pg-13 sort of way not what I would consider great gossip. When the sigma chi house got wind of it they gossiped and ridiculed me for months the story grew a real work of fiction. The tke brothers never mentioned it. If a guy told me all he cared about was making money was bitter from lack intimacy and also lacked skills in the bedroom. So I would know it would not be a good time, I would get as far a way as possible. Sex puts women in a vulnerable position even if it is casual.

Have you ever had sex yourself?
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Originally Posted by KingJulien View Post

wat

I think you failed to realize that stylememerry is a female...

I understood what she's getting at in her story, though it is oddly composed and a bit murky.
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