Originally Posted by 1234
It really does not matter fraiche....
What he needs to work on is internal not external. I know that's hard to accept on a STYLE forum, but it's true.
I agree that it won't matter if his internal is strong. This is not the case. His internal AND external are weak. His lack of confidence in both areas are clearly exhibited in this thread.
Firstly, internal is typically harder to improve than external. In addition, by working on his external, he will slowly gain internal. If you look good, you tend to feel more confident.
He should first work on his physical appearance: hitting the gym, get a new haircut, get a new wardrobe (which he's heading in the right direction, since he joined this forum).