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post #211 of 662
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It's probably my 10th attempt at online dating. In the past, I've been on POF, OKC, and other sites for months. Then after giving up, I gave each another shot, and the cycle continues. Just no luck with online dating for me. And I do believe that women think I'm a terrorist or something. I messaged one lady on POF and she responded by asking me if I was muslim. And when I said I wasn't, she said she wasn't comfortable with talking to or dating people from that "part of the world." I don't use ethnicity as an excuse, but in the online dating world, I seriously think that's why I have no success.

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post #212 of 662
OP, everyone's trying to help you except yourself.

You have to realize that EVERYTHING in life that's worth anything takes effort. And as a guy, you HAVE to put in the time and effort to get what you want.

You notice why the guy who flirts a lot gets girls? It's all effort. He flirts with everyone so he'll get the right one eventually. There's no way around skipping practice.

It sucks getting rejected but you can find enjoyment out of it. Sharing with buddies about how bad you got turned down is a great comedic session. It's just a fun experience meeting people of all sorts, even the rude ones are entertaining (actually more entertaining).

Bad experiences make GREAT stories. Find some humor in life.
post #213 of 662
^^

Listen to Fraiche, he knows about bad experiences with women.
post #214 of 662
Thread Starter 

 

 

Those are largely for people who are planning on getting arranged marriages.

 

Personally, I REFUSE to ever get an arranged marriage. I think it's a rather primitive way of meeting one's life partner.

post #215 of 662
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Those are largely for people who are planning on getting arranged marriages.

Personally, I REFUSE to ever get an arranged marriage. I think it's a rather primitive way of meeting one's life partner.

just to state the obvious you seem to be refusing the only secure way to get laid. since you do not want to use any other option
post #216 of 662
Our OP friend is too afraid of personal interaction with the opposite sex and possibly failing at it. Nothing new here, describes half of SF.
post #217 of 662
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Our OP friend is too afraid of personal interaction with the opposite sex and possibly failing at it. Nothing new here, describes half of SF.

 

Yes, I am terrified of being rejected. It's never a good feeling. 

post #218 of 662

Bro, send me a PM I can help you out. I used to go through the same shit. 

post #219 of 662
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Our OP friend is too afraid of personal interaction with the opposite sex and possibly failing at it. Nothing new here, describes half of SF.

Yes, I am terrified of being rejected. It's never a good feeling. 

No, but there are far worse feelings in life. Like dying of old age while still a virgin.
post #220 of 662
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Yes, I am terrified of being rejected. It's never a good feeling. 

Getting rejected is like getting muscle soreness from working out at the gym.

If you want to date women, first act like a fucking man.
post #221 of 662
Looking at every woman you introduce yourself to as a potential life partner instead of a sex partner is going to make things infinitely more difficult for you at this point. It's also going to make rejection sting a lot more.

It's best for you to think of this whole pursuit as a way to have fun.
post #222 of 662
Why not fatties? I've had a few in my time... shog[1].gif. But hey...
post #223 of 662
Why not try e harmony? I'm sure the success rate is higher on that site, yeah you would have to pay for it, but....
post #224 of 662
Once you start to have more experience with women you'll gain a better understanding of them. It took me a few long years of not being able to pick up chicks to finally get the hang of it.. Sales consultants and waitresses especially seem to be easy starts.. They are at a point in their lives where they don't have a career yet, etc. Sometimes you will get rejected just because of the timing.. You can make all the right moves and still get rejected.. If you do get turned down, it doesn't mean that she's not interested! This is the number one thing that most guys don't understand.. Don't let being rejected discourage you—it's all part of the game.

Edited by newyorknoir - 7/18/12 at 4:08am
post #225 of 662
Thread title should be edited to "The 26 Year Old Virgins" as the more I read this thread, the more it looks like OP isn't alone in his predicament.
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