The 27 Year Old Virgin - Page 13

I don't consciously "flirt" with women, and yet my wife complains that I am flirty with women. I'm friendly and fairly outgoing, but I think what takes it into flirtation territory is that I try to maintain strong eye contact. It's amazing how effective that is at turning ordinary conversation into sexually charged innuendo (he said, staring deeply into her eyes...)

Terrible advice. 

Give complements to women. They like it and it's not the sort of thing guys who aren't interested do. Also, casual touching is your friend. If she into you she'll like it. Nothing creepy, just a touch on the shoulder or elbow

 

Telling someone with very little social experience that touching and compliments are the way to get women sounds like it couldn't possibly fail....

 

Explain further, how far along are you making it?  If you're already on dates, are you getting bad vibes or is it going relatively well?

I'm usually fine at conversations (unless I say something a tad non-pc, but I'm working on it) but I'm especially bad at approaching women. I guess my conversational skills could be stronger because I'll often fall into the friendzone unless a girl ends up making it blatantly obvious that she is interested. I'm just really bad at reading women and don't want to be a creep so it takes me a little too long to make a move.

 

If you're making it to the friendzone then your convo skills probably aren't that bad.  

 

In my opinion, you should take more chances and just ask 'em out on a date for a specific day... if she says no then it might be somewhat embarrassing, but it's better than not asking.  After being rejected/accepted many times then you'll probably learn more of the subtle cues that women display.

For example, a punch in the pee hole is a subtle way of saying "try me again in 3 to 5 days."

Go to a legalized brother in Nevada.

 @ imatlas.  I love this forum already.  10pm here so it's time to go practice that talk, lol.

Say word?

would not a more common illegal brother be a better choice since he is in prison he would have much better understanding of sodomy.

OP, what about a legal brothel in NV then? Do you ever go there to vacation? Any objection to this idea?

What are your feelings on the PUA books?

Why not tutor women? Put ads up around your old col and only accept women. I wouldn't assume that this would lead to sex, but you would get use to talking to girls on a regular basis, and it might lead to friendship. It would also help with your self confidence since you would be in a position of authority by default. The extra money wouldn't bad either.

Why not throw yourself back into online dating? Even if you say the women are crazy, its not as if you are looking for a wife. Have you been reading the online dating thread we have here?

Virgin School sounded like it would be germane for this thread.