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post #166 of 662

That just seems so unbelievably shady. It might be worth the risk if desperate, but maybe he should try some other avenues first.
post #167 of 662
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Originally Posted by deadly7 View Post

+1
since when did it get to be so fucking hard to TALK to people?

Apparently it is pretty hard - I took a cycling friend of mine out the other day, and shit...I had to coax him into getting to talk to this one girl, and he want to use some stupid catch phrase...finally I got him to introduce himself like a normal person..he hit it off pretty well, but wasn't interested - "she was a receptionist"
post #168 of 662
post #169 of 662
OP, you've had 26 years of "real world" chances. Face it. At this point, picking up an escort is inevitable if you want to lose your virginity.
post #170 of 662
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Originally Posted by 1234 View Post

What an ugly whore.

Hello???? She's a midget!!!!!
post #171 of 662
Thread Starter 
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Originally Posted by Neo_Version 7 View Post

OP, you've had 26 years of "real world" chances. Face it. At this point, picking up an escort is inevitable if you want to lose your virginity.

 

And what would happen if I got arrested. Seriously, I'm not going to risk it.

post #172 of 662
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Originally Posted by amathew View Post

And what would happen if I got arrested. Seriously, I'm not going to risk it.
seriously this attitude oen reason you willnto get girl, not willing to take even a minor risk in short being a pussy.
and think outside the box if you are that scared take a weekend to trip to mexico you will not be arrested there.
post #173 of 662
He statistician:

It's a numbers game. Try to look your best, try to seem confident without looking desperate and start approaching women. Be prepared to get rejected.


Or get a prostitute and calculate the odds of getting arrested or getting shaken down for money than you thought you owed.
post #174 of 662
re: the prostitute suggestions. If he's got a severe mental fixation of his virginity and feels it likely that he'll be much better off with women after losing it, then maybe you can make a case for going out and doing it. But it sounds like he's just generally inept with women and wants to be able to have some relationships. Nailing a hooker isn't really going to help him with that.
post #175 of 662

amathew -- this is my first post on the forum and I hope that I can help you.  I'm a day shy of 26 years old, American, fit, and also have a good job/income.  Your post made me want to help you because I can tell you're genuinely a good guy and I figure that I have the experience to provide some potentially useful info.  

FYI -- I had plenty of background information regarding recent pickups typed here, but deleted it due to my association with facebook on styleforum.  :)  Essentially, I have little/no problems hooking up with beautiful women on a regular basis.

 

 

1)  When approaching or speaking to women, do not think sexual thoughts.  Your desires will be a huge distraction to you and obvious to others, so keep your thoughts on other things and act yourself.  Due to you not having sex before, this is why some folks told you to just hook up with a random person to get that over with and ease your mind.  Another weird solution/tip for that problem, masturbate prior to going out... that will help you relax and assist with your first sexual experience (the first time doesn't last long, and that can potentially help...).  A slight buzz from alcohol also helps, haha.

 

2)  Dress/GROOM appropriately for the setting.  Don't overdue it... aka don't overdress or spray half a bottle of cologne on.  Pay attention to details... in clothing and nails, ears, eyebrows, and other little things like that which guys normally don't take good care of.

 

3)  Be interesting... maybe show/talk about a talent you have or do something surprising/spontaneous.  Keep the convo going with some of the tips folks provided earlier.  Fix exposed weaknesses later in the conversations, aka if you're coming across like a complete tool then do something nice later to make her reconsider that problem.  Actions speak louder than words.

 

4)  Give your number then leave her presence.  I normally give my number and don't take hers, it puts her on the chase and shows my confidence.

 

5)  Rinse and repeat, quickly.  Life is too short to wait until the next weekend.  You'll end up a 40 year old virgin if ya don't seize the day.

 

Cheers.

post #176 of 662
giving out phone numbers doesn't show confidence. Exactly the opposite.
post #177 of 662
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Originally Posted by TheJared View Post

amathew -- this is my first post on the forum and I hope that I can help you.  I'm a day shy of 26 years old, American, fit, and also have a good job/income.  Your post made me want to help you because I can tell you're genuinely a good guy and I figure that I have the experience to provide some potentially useful info.  
FYI -- I had plenty of background information regarding recent pickups typed here, but deleted it due to my association with facebook on styleforum.  smile.gif  Essentially, I have little/no problems hooking up with beautiful women on a regular basis.


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post #178 of 662
I can empathize with the OP due to my many terrible failures, but you just have to put yourself out there. The way that I see it is that you don't have to be afraid of making an ass of yourself when the girl is outside of your social circle because the odds are that you will never have to run into her again if things don't work out.


One thing that may be useful is if some of you guys have any tips on how to flirt. I'm particularly bad at this and often end up being too friendly and not aggressive enough to seal the deal.
post #179 of 662
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Originally Posted by Texastyle View Post

I can empathize with the OP due to my many terrible failures, but you just have to put yourself out there. The way that I see it is that you don't have to be afraid of making an ass of yourself when the girl is outside of your social circle because the odds are that you will never have to run into her again if things don't work out.
One thing that may be useful is if some of you guys have any tips on how to flirt. I'm particularly bad at this and often end up being too friendly and not aggressive enough to seal the deal.

 

You're really not going to get anything useful from dudes on the internet in that department.  Just treat girls like you would your friends, or whoever, and you'll be fine.

 

Also wtf is with you guys and prostitutes?

post #180 of 662
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Originally Posted by texas_jack View Post

giving out phone numbers doesn't show confidence. Exactly the opposite.

 

I don't think that's always true... but it certainly can be depending on the way it's done.  I'm horrible with names so my method works for that problem, haha.  Usually I have already asked to go on a date prior to the number swap anyway, so it doesn't really matter in those instances.

 

 

Fuji -- thanks for pointing out that douche of a sentence.  facepalm.gif

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