The 27 Year Old Virgin - Page 12

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Originally Posted by texas_jack 



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What an ugly whore.

amathew -- this is my first post on the forum and I hope that I can help you.  I'm a day shy of 26 years old, American, fit, and also have a good job/income.  Your post made me want to help you because I can tell you're genuinely a good guy and I figure that I have the experience to provide some potentially useful info.  

FYI -- I had plenty of background information regarding recent pickups typed here, but deleted it due to my association with facebook on styleforum.  :)  Essentially, I have little/no problems hooking up with beautiful women on a regular basis.

1)  When approaching or speaking to women, do not think sexual thoughts.  Your desires will be a huge distraction to you and obvious to others, so keep your thoughts on other things and act yourself.  Due to you not having sex before, this is why some folks told you to just hook up with a random person to get that over with and ease your mind.  Another weird solution/tip for that problem, masturbate prior to going out... that will help you relax and assist with your first sexual experience (the first time doesn't last long, and that can potentially help...).  A slight buzz from alcohol also helps, haha.

2)  Dress/GROOM appropriately for the setting.  Don't overdue it... aka don't overdress or spray half a bottle of cologne on.  Pay attention to details... in clothing and nails, ears, eyebrows, and other little things like that which guys normally don't take good care of.

3)  Be interesting... maybe show/talk about a talent you have or do something surprising/spontaneous.  Keep the convo going with some of the tips folks provided earlier.  Fix exposed weaknesses later in the conversations, aka if you're coming across like a complete tool then do something nice later to make her reconsider that problem.  Actions speak louder than words.

4)  Give your number then leave her presence.  I normally give my number and don't take hers, it puts her on the chase and shows my confidence.

5)  Rinse and repeat, quickly.  Life is too short to wait until the next weekend.  You'll end up a 40 year old virgin if ya don't seize the day.

Cheers.

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Originally Posted by Texastyle 

I can empathize with the OP due to my many terrible failures, but you just have to put yourself out there. The way that I see it is that you don't have to be afraid of making an ass of yourself when the girl is outside of your social circle because the odds are that you will never have to run into her again if things don't work out.
One thing that may be useful is if some of you guys have any tips on how to flirt. I'm particularly bad at this and often end up being too friendly and not aggressive enough to seal the deal.

You're really not going to get anything useful from dudes on the internet in that department.  Just treat girls like you would your friends, or whoever, and you'll be fine.

Also wtf is with you guys and prostitutes?

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Originally Posted by texas_jack 

giving out phone numbers doesn't show confidence. Exactly the opposite.

I don't think that's always true... but it certainly can be depending on the way it's done.  I'm horrible with names so my method works for that problem, haha.  Usually I have already asked to go on a date prior to the number swap anyway, so it doesn't really matter in those instances.

Fuji -- thanks for pointing out that douche of a sentence.