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post #106 of 662
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Originally Posted by why View Post

Blind leading the blind. Why would you ask this question on a site with a good chunk of its members themselves awkward virgins and some of the biggest threads are about porn or are photo dumps of women categorized by race and hair color?

By extrapolation, are you saying that a good chunk of people who work in the porn industry are awkward virgins?
post #107 of 662
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Originally Posted by LA Guy View Post

By extrapolation, are you saying that a good chunk of people who work in the porn industry are awkward virgins?

About as much as I'm saying hair salons are full of awkward virgins and discussions of pornography.

I don't know if you're trying to be funny here or what because what you said makes no sense.
post #108 of 662
Thread Starter 

You know, I was doing a google search for forums where people like me might hang out, and the 

social anxiety support forum has been extremely useful. 

 

http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum/f26/loner-no-friends-no-social-life-36785/index2.html

 

http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum/f35/no-friends-no-girlfriend-horrible-job-and-no-life-massive-156542/


Edited by amathew - 5/28/12 at 11:40am
post #109 of 662
post #110 of 662
I just don't understand...
post #111 of 662
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Originally Posted by amathew View Post

You know, I was doing a google search for forums where people like me might hang out, and the 
social anxiety support forum has been extremely useful. 

http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum/f26/loner-no-friends-no-social-life-36785/index2.html

http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum/f35/no-friends-no-girlfriend-horrible-job-and-no-life-massive-156542/

I don't know what you hope to gain from visiting websites like that. Socializing is never a natural process. Even the most gifted had to spend a lot of time learning how to do it. Find something that helps you meet people and talk to them. Spending your time wallowing on the internet looking for "Me too!!!" is only going to keep you at square one. You already know what the problem is: you don't like things most people your age do and don't know how to talk to them. There's no quick and easy solution for it. Therapy is useless, meds aren't really that helpful (unless you have severe social anxiety). The only way is to practice.
post #112 of 662
How will that forum help at all? Maybe if you want to surround yourself by how much life sucks, which will just make shit worse.

edit, well deadly7 beat me to it
post #113 of 662
after those links and if fit with those people you are about 2 years away from getting anyway near girl in a dating sense.
Hire a hooker
this has been said but think about it by the time even you try to get bed girl you will be touching 30 do not be 30 year old virgin, at 26 you feel weird and 30 you will be a creep
post #114 of 662
Pretend you are asking to learn how to swim:

Would you be finding help on forums exclusively; maybe you would use forums to find pools and bodies of water, maybe the right swim gear, that's about it.

You have to jump into the water.

You will look silly in the beginning, but oh well.

Now, go out there and learn how to swim!
post #115 of 662
I can't get over that site, seriouslay brought tears to my eyes. I've spent the last fewhours drinking and reading that waiting to go to a party... the world is beautiiful my friend go out and explore it. One day you'll look back and laugh.

so fucked up:

http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum/f24/sas-guys-describe-your-ideal-girlfriend-157795/
post #116 of 662
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Originally Posted by Biscotti View Post

I can't get over that site, seriouslay brought tears to my eyes. I've spent the last fewhours drinking and reading that waiting to go to a party... the world is beautiiful my friend go out and explore it. One day you'll look back and laugh.
so fucked up:
http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum/f24/sas-guys-describe-your-ideal-girlfriend-157795/

 

Wow, I haven't even put that much thought into my ideal partner. As long as they have a vag and aren't obese, I'm good.

post #117 of 662
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Originally Posted by Reggs View Post

Again, I worked in my college gym and found this to be extremely common. Lots of indian guys would visit family on the weekends and come back to their dorms with tupperware full of curry. And it's one of those things that would hold any guy back from getting a girl. It's rude to mention, and no, they don't recognize it themselves, so why not just throw it out there in a thread like this? Don't be so sensitive.

I don't think my sensitivity is the issue, I think your ignorance is.
post #118 of 662
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Originally Posted by rms340 View Post


I don't think my sensitivity is the issue, I think your ignorance is.

 

OP here. I don't think he's so far off. Sure, eating curry frequently doesn't cause it to ooze out of one's pores, but a lot of Indian guys (especially fobs) do smell. rms340 mentioned

that he interacted with a lot of Indians in college, so I assume they were just fobs with weren't familiar with american notions of cleanliness and weren't used to deodorant. 

 

I also think he's right with his suggestion to limit eating indian food. I haven't eaten indian food in a year, and it's largely because i don't like the taste of it and it's extremely unhealthy. 

post #119 of 662
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Originally Posted by amathew View Post

and it's extremely unhealthy.
What?
post #120 of 662
Thread Starter 
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Originally Posted by b1os View Post


What?

 

Indian food is unhealthy. Lots of butter and spicy curry's. 

 

It's probably not "unhealthier" than any other foods, and in moderation, it's probably fine.

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