It's a difference between dressing-to-impress and dressing-to-express. For the latter I use my mouth. For the former, I am hidebound by Mr Grant, various Bonds, and every other father or authority figure in the Ego of the minds of my audience. While I am unknown, I might still hope to be mistaken for these impressive characters. I like to make more than just a first impression, and quietly confident clothes lets me hold my unruly tongue. Doesn't work the same online, where I am just a mouth
This may sound awfully conformist, but dressing in mismatched grown-up clothes is hardly fringe. Edit: This post follows from the previous one, and has drifted off topic (sorry). The OP's picture actually looks like my dad, so projects authority for me.
This may sound awfully conformist, but dressing in mismatched grown-up clothes is hardly fringe. Edit: This post follows from the previous one, and has drifted off topic (sorry). The OP's picture actually looks like my dad, so projects authority for me.





