actually, the first times my wife and I traveled together we had a couple of fights. she was used to being more in control, and I was used to not having to explain what I was doing, so she got really frustrated at being led around and told what to do, and I was confused at why she was asking me questions. but we have both learned. also, the one of the first trips we took, we went to Italy and a friend of hers gave us a huge gelato maker. so, here I am in my suit, with a tiny carry on suitcase, carrying this huge gelato maker everywhere under my arm. I wanted to throw it out, I wasn't going to pay to ship it home, and so I ended up carrying it everywhere.
but now we are much better at traveling together